Not sure where to start, but an introduction should do
This is none of my business and I support people making the decision that is right for them. Have you considered a BPD/DS? I got a RNY about 13 years ago, lost tons of weight then gained back a lot of it and now am having a revision. I wish that I had known about DS surgery back then. It sounds like it is better for long term weight loss. Whatever you choose, I wish you all the best. Good Luck!