What makes an OH member a "vet"?
Hi guys.
There has been a lot of talk lately about "vets". Specifically related to certain interactions with newer members. I realized I don't have any idea what constitutes "vet" status here. Is it long term success? Long term membership on OH even if no weight has been lost? I would imagine a "vet" would be somewhat post op, but I know one very nice lady I consider at "vet" who is a non-op.
So I thought I'd ask. I'd love to hear from pre-ops, post-ops, non-ops, revisions, lurkers, newbs - pretty much anyone who sees this post. What does everyone think?
To me, a vet is someone who has lived this experience for at least five years and has remained cognizant of the best way to use their tool. They may not necessarily be at their goal weight, but are actively engaged in working their surgery. By year five, most people have struggled in maintenance and have had a health issue that required them to be an advocate for themselves. They realize the limits of their WLS and don't spout off platitudes or generalizations, as they recognize the value in being honest about what is required to be successful.
~Jen
RNY, 8/1/2011
HW: 348 SW: 306 CW:-fighting regain GW: 140
He who endures, conquers. ~Persius
Phhhttt. I'll post mine. That'll clear this place out.
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.
I DARE you!!!! It needs to be current - within 2 years.. No baby pictures.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
Have I become that predictable?
I'm going away with JB for the weekend. She threatened to get me a red Speedo. We'll see . . .
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.
on 6/9/16 6:04 am
Drive-by postings too! A response to a single post every few months, and maybe a re-post of something they wrote ages ago.
Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!