Transfer addiction: Shopping!
So far I've avoided anything too bad, but I think I have a problem with shopping. I've been able to control it for the most part, but I can see a trend and it makes me very nervous. I think what really made it stand out to me, and I know this is going to sound crazy, was when I went online to Amazon.com and got a warm fuzzy feeling when I was just browsing.
So far it hasn't caused me any financial issues, but I am going to have to be very mindful of my spending. It actually gives me the warm tinglies just thinking about buying something. I add things to my shopping cart and leave them there, then move them out, then put them back. It's crazy.
I love that shopping warm tingly feeling. Do I have a shopping addiction? No. Do I periodically abuse shopping? Perhaps. I do know it is not a transfer addiction since I was this way before surgery. I do stay within my means, so I am not worried.
Height: 5'7". HW: 299, Program starting weight: 290, SW: 238, CW 138 - 12 pounds under goal!
on 4/18/16 11:44 am
Set up a wishlist on Amazon, then you can save whatever you like!
You might try Pinterest, too. You can pin stuff from any shop, and that's a good way to collect things!
Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!
I've always been a shopper... from the time I was a child- but I'm also very cheap. or so my husband says.
I sell my old clothes on swap.com, ebay, facebook sites, etc. I use that money to by new to me clothes. I like to change things up :)
A thrift store near me does 10/$15 and one does $1.00 racks- I stock up for less than $20.
I don't consider it an issue for me.
So far I've avoided anything too bad, but I think I have a problem with shopping. I've been able to control it for the most part, but I can see a trend and it makes me very nervous. I think what really made it stand out to me, and I know this is going to sound crazy, was when I went online to Amazon.com and got a warm fuzzy feeling when I was just browsing.
So far it hasn't caused me any financial issues, but I am going to have to be very mindful of my spending. It actually gives me the warm tinglies just thinking about buying something. I add things to my shopping cart and leave them there, then move them out, then put them back. It's crazy.
I do the EXACT same thing... online shopping is totally my transfer addiction too. :)
HW - 339lbs
SW - 301
CW - 282lbs
RNY 03/21/2016
I've been a shopping addict for years. When I got too heavy to have fun at the mall, the online shopping addiction took over. It's funny though...since my VSG surgery I haven't bought anything for myself. Not even a pair of shoes!!! WHAT???
On my way back to being me.
Been there ( am there now, actually ), done that, ( doing it now...haha. *discreetly closes macys.com tab* ) and bought all the purses. And I do mean ALLLLLL the purses. ( and clothes and shoes...but mostly purses. )
It started off with a trip to an outlet mall one night in August of 2012. "I don't have a black purse. I think I should get one...for dressy occasions." Then later it was "Oh...I want a rainbow of purses!" ( yes, a rainbow of purses. I know, I know...) Four years and lots of purses later, I've got multiples of every color of the rainbow...and then some. ( Yeah, I had a purse thing even before my surgery. Hey, purses almost always fit no matter what size I was! )
I've managed to slow way, way down on my shopping a lot over the last few months. It was hinky there for a bit. ( October was baaaaad. ) It really does produce a dangerous high. I felt HAPPY. I was giddy and felt on top of the world when buying myself a gorgeous leather purse ( or 4 ). When I started playing the "What's the most expensive purse I can buy?" game, I knew it was time to rethink things. I was starting to stress out over it, so I knew that I needed to stop it. It was no longer fun or gave me that warm fuzzy feeling like you mentioned.
I didn't go into debt or anything...but my disposable income is um.."somewhat reduced" as of late. ( Of course some of that went to buying land for my hubs and him building a garage/ future side business and buying myself a sports car instead of boobies. )
I woke up in between a memory and a dream...
Tom Petty