Giving away clothes?
So, I am down probably two sizes. One for sure. I have thousands of dollars spent on clothing. Really nice clothing. My current fall wear is definitely too baggy to wear to work. I want so badly to bag them and just give them to a close friend. However, I'm scared. I'm scared this is a joke? Am I really going to continue to loose this weight? Am I going to continue to get smaller? I feel that old self wondering " will I gain this weight back?" I am bound and determined not to! I love how I feel to turn back. I never want to feel the way i did. But I have failed so many times before. I feel like I need to keep these clothes in a bin, in a basement. On another note I really want to get rid of them and never see them again. Well, not on me. Any suggestions? Rid them or save them?
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Jenn 77 p
I'd save whatever it is that are your favorites & give away the rest, as you move along you'll probably want to get rid of your favorites too, but keeping 1 or 2 items will serve as a reminder as to where you've been.
I've gotten rid of a lot of clothes but still like to look at this flowery shirt that was my favorite shirt to wear, its more of a nightgown now. LOL
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on 9/14/15 1:40 pm
If you ever decide to do something else with your favorite old shirt you could always make it into a pillow! Then you would always have your "shirt" but you repurposed it as you don't really want to ever go back into that sz again. LOL just a thought. :)
Melissa
on 9/14/15 2:14 pm
If you're nervous, keep one outfit. After all, it's good to have something to look back at to remind you of how big you were!
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VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!
I think your feelings are perfectly understandable. Many of us have done the yo-yo dieting/weight loss thing multiple times and have clothing in our closets waiting for "someday." I like the suggestions to keep one or two things to wear for your progress photos. I was in a hurry to donate the clothing that no longer fit me (still am) and forgot to keep an item or two for comparison. Congratulations on your progress!
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Height: 5'10" HW: 264.4 Bariatric information session 1/21/15. Insurance approves VSG 4/30/15. Surgery date 5/28/15.
I had this same exact struggle and I went through my closet Just a few weeks post op. I was bringing out my summer clothes, realizing that I'd never need the winter clothes again. I saved one outfit, the one I felt that I liked the best/ most together in. Not in case I gained weight, to compare what I thought was my best 'then' compared to my 'new best'.
You can't move forward with one foot stuck in the mud.
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5'6.5" High weight:337 Lowest weight:193/31 BMI: Goal: 195-205/31-32 BMI
I gave a large group of clothes to Salvation Army. I am now selling my more expensive clothes on ebay. I don't plan to wear size 20 again.
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on 9/15/15 7:42 pm
I sell mine on eBay, Facebook garage sale groups, and to ThredUp.