too skinny?

Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 8/20/15 6:22 pm - OH

As Mo just said, you are foolish to listen to ONE person who is less than a month out of surgery and completely disregard the comments/concerns of MANY people who are many years out and have seen: MANY cases of people who never should have had surgery because their expectations were unrealistic or they took it very lightly; a few cases of people who got dangerously thin; a boatload of people who thought they they knew it all before surgery only to discover that they should have more carefully considered the voices of the "vets" (even if they didn't like the "tone" of what was said).

Having 90% of your stomach removed for a "cosmetic" procedure is insane, especially when you already say you have no trouble sticking to a diet, exercise routine, etc.

Best of luck to you (sincerely, not sarcastically)

Lora

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

TinaLaFina305
on 8/20/15 8:40 pm
The Salty Hag
on 8/20/15 8:46 pm
RNY on 05/20/13
On August 20, 2015 at 8:40 PM Pacific Time, TinaLaFina305 wrote:

What am to listen too exactly? What advice was given to me by the bullying vets? None!!

all was said was i shouldn't get the surgery unlike yall I'm not worthy 

just because I don't need a crane to get out of bed I should be able to handle more attempts at dieting and workouts

 

Never once did I or the other innocent blogger say the surgery is for cosmetic purpose but I will say it's a hell of a plus!!! I simply shared the fact that this is being done! People actually pay money and get this done as a cosmetic surgery and I don't judge them or look down upon them to each is own! 

i don't have to explain myself to you or share my BMI or health issues 

I qualify period. I just hope I don't get too skinny because I'm giving this tool this second chance all that I've got 

For posterity. 

 

I woke up in between a memory and a dream...

Tom Petty

Grim_Traveller
on 8/20/15 8:49 pm
RNY on 08/21/12
On August 20, 2015 at 8:40 PM Pacific Time, TinaLaFina305 wrote:

What am to listen too exactly? What advice was given to me by the bullying vets? None!!

all was said was i shouldn't get the surgery unlike yall I'm not worthy 

just because I don't need a crane to get out of bed I should be able to handle more attempts at dieting and workouts

 

Never once did I or the other innocent blogger say the surgery is for cosmetic purpose but I will say it's a hell of a plus!!! I simply shared the fact that this is being done! People actually pay money and get this done as a cosmetic surgery and I don't judge them or look down upon them to each is own! 

i don't have to explain myself to you or share my BMI or health issues 

I qualify period. I just hope I don't get too skinny because I'm giving this tool this second chance all that I've got 

You won't get too skinny. With your attitude, you stand little chance of maintaining a healthy weight. Harpy.

6'3" tall, male.

Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.

M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.

The Salty Hag
on 8/20/15 8:50 pm
RNY on 05/20/13

Aw Grim...don't insult the harpies!! 

I woke up in between a memory and a dream...

Tom Petty

The Salty Hag
on 8/20/15 9:01 pm
RNY on 05/20/13

See...and now you resort to insults about our former sizes, but...I can guarantee you that your ass is MUCH bigger than mine, sweetheart. 

I woke up in between a memory and a dream...

Tom Petty

TinaLaFina305
on 8/20/15 9:33 pm
Citizen Kim
on 8/21/15 5:38 am - Castle Rock, CO
On August 20, 2015 at 9:33 PM Pacific Time, TinaLaFina305 wrote:

Don't get sensitive you clearly didn't need a crane so your provoking me for fun.

your ass is smaller than mine I actually hope it never gets that small because then I'd have to shell out 10gs for a Brazilian butt lift 

but hopefully because I am starting at a lower BMI than you did, squats will actually be effective 

For posterity

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

Cicerogirl, The PhD
Version

on 8/20/15 10:36 pm - OH
On August 20, 2015 at 8:40 PM Pacific Time, TinaLaFina305 wrote:

What am to listen too exactly? What advice was given to me by the bullying vets? None!!

all was said was i shouldn't get the surgery unlike yall I'm not worthy 

just because I don't need a crane to get out of bed I should be able to handle more attempts at dieting and workouts

 

Never once did I or the other innocent blogger say the surgery is for cosmetic purpose but I will say it's a hell of a plus!!! I simply shared the fact that this is being done! People actually pay money and get this done as a cosmetic surgery and I don't judge them or look down upon them to each is own! 

i don't have to explain myself to you or share my BMI or health issues 

I qualify period. I just hope I don't get too skinny because I'm giving this tool this second chance all that I've got 

Cranes to get out of bed?!? Seriously?  That is not only extremely rude, and completely uncalled for, but just plain mean and intentionally hurtful on a weight loss surgery support forum. 

If you don't like what people have to say, that's fine, and I was willing to let the"hags" comment slide, but the crane comment... Nope, not letting that one slide.

 

 

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

TinaLaFina305
on 8/20/15 11:31 pm

As an obese woman I'm allowed to make fat jokes and you can't take that from me! 

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