How to manage eating out?

iamhaysel
on 8/12/15 1:42 pm

Hi everyone. I am just wondering how you all manage to eat out and drink at the same time.. Do you take sips when you first get your drink and then completely stop drinking when your food comes? TIA!!!

(deactivated member)
on 8/12/15 2:22 pm

I think it depends how far out you are from surgery. I find it pretty easy to go out. I usually find the menu to the place that I am going to and look at it at home first. 

I usually drink up till my food comes. I pick something that is protein and eat that first. When I started out and was on liquids I would go to dinner and bring my protein shake. That was at a place we are regulars at. I also would bring Crystal light with me. 

I always had them take my glass when dinner came so out of habit I wouldn't drink anything. 

H.A.L.A B.
on 8/12/15 2:30 pm

In the beginning -  no drinks.. just food. 

now - I drin****il the meal comes.. then wait 4-5 min and start eating... 

Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG

"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"

"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

Gwen M.
on 8/12/15 2:35 pm
VSG on 03/13/14

I drin****il my food comes.  Then I eat.  I check my watch when I finish eating and start drinking again at 30 minutes.  

VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)

Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170

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Heather L.
on 8/13/15 8:15 am - Coquitlam, Canada
VSG on 03/26/15

Exactly this.

VSG Mar 26, 2015 Dr. Sharadh Sampath -- 5'3" -- 47YO -- HW: 294 - SW: 261 - CW: 192 - GW: 175
Bi-lateral Brachioplasty May 8, 2017 Dr. Owen Reid
Lower Body Lift Oct 2, 2017 Dr. Owen Reid

"Weight is lost in kitchens, health is gained in gyms." - Dr. Yoni Freedhoff

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Felicity Q.
on 8/12/15 3:14 pm
DS on 09/28/15

It took me way too long to just decline a drink when the server first gets to your table. I'm usually hydrated enough at that point and its easier than drinking 1/2 your water and getting a refill or 2nd glass automatically without your consent!  If I am thirsty, I do as others do, and drink a small amount until the meal arrives, then just ignore the drink. I'm too busy CHEWING CHEWING CHEWING! :)

Lap-Band 2011 | DS Revision 9/28/15 | HW: 380 in 2011 | GW: 140

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peachpie
on 8/12/15 6:08 pm - Philadelphia, PA
RNY on 04/28/15

I don't drink at all if we go out to eat. I just decline a drink. When I was on vacation I did ask for a  to-go water (where available) and drank that 30 minutes after leaving.

5'6.5" High weight:337 Lowest weight:193/31 BMI: Goal: 195-205/31-32 BMI

emelar
on 8/13/15 8:55 am - TX

If you are fresh out of surgery, like the first 6 months, stick to the "no drinking 30 minutes before or after a meal" rule - or whatever timeframe your surgeon gave you.  You're so restricted early out that even drinking before can cause problems.

As time goes on, you can drink before, stop when you start eating, and then don't drink after for at least 30 minutes after.  I wait for an hour or more after a meal.

At restaurants, I've always gotten water.  Whether I drink it or not is no one's business.  But it avoids waitresses hovering over you asking constantly if you want a drink.

iloveravens
on 8/13/15 9:06 am
RNY on 08/13/14

In the first few months after surgery, I always ordered an unsweetened iced tea in a to-go cup at every restaurant so I could take it with me and drink it 30 mins after.  I would sip it until my meal came.  Now I just order water to sip before my meal since I drink so much during the day already.

Lanie; Age: 43; Surgery Date (VSG): 8/12/14 w/complications resulting in RNY next day;

Height: 5' 6" SW: 249 Comfort Zone: 135-140 CW: 138 (10/13/17)

M1: -25 lbs M2: -12 M3: -13 M4: -7 M5: -11 M6: -10 M7: -7 M8: -7 M9: -3 M10: -8 M11: -4 M12: -4

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