I NEED HELP NOW!!!! Gastric Bypass years ago, had a baby and can't get rid of this...

No to the diet pills. 

You know what to do - yes, it's back to basics. But in your case, if you replace your beer and sweet tea with water (try carbonated "fizzy water" as I call it, with a little flavoring) - my guess is that you'll see some results just from that. 

Otherwise let me warn you that losing the regain can be a very slow process. But it CAN be done - 

Cut out the refined carbs (bread products and sugar). Complex carbs with lots of veggies are fine.

Drink your water and stay hydrated. 

Log your food - the good, bad, and ugly. I recommend My Fitness Pal to get a real picture of what your actual intake looks like. 

Get moving. I find that if I get some exercise, I mentally don't want to "blow it" for the rest of the day.

Protein first and protein centered meals. We have just a little real estate in our tummies - so what we put in has to really be the right stuff!

Best of luck and keep posting!