Mothers and WLS

As we gather with our families to celebrate our Moms I wanted to take a moment to reflect on being a Mom and WLS.  My mother passed very early in my life so I cherish every moment I have with my son and grandson.  The number 1 reason we have surgery should be for "OURSELVES".  But for those of us Mom's the most powerful next reason is our kids.

When my PCP told me over 10 years ago I would not live for another 5 years I was freaking out.  My son was not settled in life, not married and didn't have kids. I thought of all the things I would miss if I was gone in 5 years.

When I think of all the wonderful life moments I have enjoyed since my surgery my heart swells with happiness.  My son is doing great in life, married a wonderful young woman, gave me the most precious Grandson and another one on the way.  When he calls me Nana I feel like the luckiest person in the world.

There is no doubt in my mind I would not be here if it were not for my surgery.  Hey Moms, your child wants to say Thank You Mom for giving us YOU!

Happy Mother's Day Everyone

Thanks for saying this, Kathy.  My mother died unexpectedly when I was 11.  Even now, 40 years later, I miss all the things we would have shared.  To all the mothers out there: thank you for sparing your children.  Your self-care IS caring for them! 

Happy Mother's Day!

My post to this is from the opposite end of the spectrum.  My son is 4 and every day I can spend chasing after him is a day to celebrate.  Truly WLS is a gift. 
Happy Mothers Day Everyone!

The love for my son saved my life.  I never cared enough about myself to be healthy.  But, my love for him forced me to face my addiction to food and to improve my health. 

My son saved my life.