Only 1 week out since gastric bypass and already...

prism4105
on 12/23/14 12:22 pm
RNY on 06/26/14

There us a difference between telling someone things and being rude about it! 

        

    
Sharon SW-267
GW-165 CW-167 S.

on 12/28/14 2:45 am - PA
RNY on 12/22/14

Your original post was pretty shocking, and as others are saying, just difficult to comprehend. Even the people you are choosing to be around - why is anyone offering you a hamburger (of any size) so shortly after major surgery??  You excuse that it would get wasted if you didn't eat it sounds like trouble. If this is a real issue, or if others have found a immediate turn-around difficult, a few suggestions:

Clear chicken broth is a savory to balance the sweet protein shakes. 

For some time, stay away from the sabotagers. That next hamburger may really cause problems and land you in the hospital. 

Start at the beginning and reeducate yourself and those around you.  Reach out to your surgeon ASAP.   

Best wishes,

 

Valerie G.
on 12/24/14 2:43 am - Northwest Mountains, GA

If you can have soft foods like pudding, try some ricotta cheese covered with spaghetti sauce and mozzerella, heated up.  The savory lasagna flavor might do the trick.

Valerie
DS 2005

There is room on this earth for all of God's creatures..
next to the mashed potatoes

rocky513
on 12/21/14 7:41 am - WI

Wow.  

Since you just joined OH today and you posted a very inflammatory comment, knowing full well that it would prompt some very passionate responses about your success and your health, I can only assume that you are a TROLL.  If you are not a TROLL then I wish you good luck for your WLS success.  You're going to need it.

HW 270 SW 236 GW 160 CW 145 (15 pounds below goal!)

VBG Aug. 7, 1986, Revised to RNY Nov. 18, 2010

MegZorar
on 12/21/14 8:42 am, edited 12/21/14 9:15 am

Thought the same thing. Don't feed the trolls.

Also, the original poster's name is lilnikki. "Little Nicky" is that Adam Sandler movie in which Sandler plays Nicky, son of the devil.

     

(deactivated member)
on 12/22/14 4:35 am

I believe you are quite right about this being a Troll, first thing that crossed my mind!!!

 

Jennifer

Laura in Texas
on 12/21/14 7:56 am

You are wrong. Unless you change your habits, you will not be a success story. Period.

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Gwen M.
on 12/21/14 8:01 am
VSG on 03/13/14

Please get yourself to a therapist.  You clearly did not do enough research about this surgery pre-op, so you're going to have to work really hard to get up to speed now so you don't damage yourself.  

VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)

Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170

TrendWeight | Food Blog (sort of functional) | Journal (down for maintenance)

lilnikki
on 12/21/14 5:57 pm - Preston, WA

Ok everybody.... I am not a troll.  I did post a straight forward and honest confessional of my post-op behavior.  I'm a straight forward person, so I appreciate the responses here and amused by some.  I spent 2 years with a dietician as part of my program.  In that time I discovered juuuuust how deep the roots of coping with food ran and that I would have to deal with this for the rest of my life.  Then I looked for a therapist that dealt specifically with eating disorders, but my insurance didn't cover it and I'm on very limited income.  I did see a couple of different therapist and both fell short when it came to understanding the dynamic of food as a coping mechanism.  Anyway, I'm still on the soft food diet.

MegZorar
on 12/22/14 8:26 am

I'd like to apologize. Didn't occur to me that this was a genuine post.

You don't deserve ridicule, if you're reaching out for support. Take care of yourself.

We're all rooting for you. Good luck.

     

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