my posts aren't showing up??

I find this forum a bid difficult to get around.. I added a post but when I click on it it just brings me to the mail Forum page and I cannot see my post.. where did it go??

Hello Bianka,

In an attempt to protect our Members from Spam accounts we require all new accounts to have their posts manually approved the first 48 hours.  We try to get them approved as quickly as we can but their can be a delay. Once the initial 48 hours is over your post will appear in real time.

Thank you for your understanding....