To tell or not to tell....

I did not attack you at all ...if asking you if "you are jealous", is attacking you than you have issues. If I recall correctly you jumped down my back for even asking you that, and called me "negative, hateful and delusional" I was not trying to offend you I was just speaking my mind and giving my opinion on how I felt about the story. I am far from hateful and I will never apologize for speaking my mind..however I will apologize if I offended you, because believe it or not that was not my intention, I'm just outspoken. I guess I value friendship differently from you and I can't ever imagine calling to tell on a friend, just not me but if that's what you choose ...so be it Good luck on your journey 

Chica - you have ISSUES yourself.  Kinda the pot calling the kettle black don't you think??

Feel free to block - in fact, please do so!  I just did.

HIPPAA will not allow your surgeon to discuss another patient with you.  Keep it to yourself and set a good example.  If she manages to get through the psych evaluation and the surgeon's bloodwork to test her compliance, then she will get through it one way or another.

There is not much you can do about this.  If it were me, I would tell your friend point blank "do not ask me anymore questions about this surgery because I do not believe you are going to succeed and am not going to pick up the pieces of the aftermath."

You can still keep the friendship but don't take the responsibility when it fails, and she most likely WILL hold you responsible.

I came back and deleted this paragraph because after reading more of the posts, I realized that my suggestion WAS not a good one, it would have been the wrong thing to do.  Just let her go on, you cannot make her change.  Pray for her is all you can do and don't talk about it with her anymore.