What were your feelings????

I really don't care if she had a point or not. There is a way to address topics. And the way she addressed it was based on assumption.  So, when she assumed I didn't know  anything about my procedure, it was offensive. She was being sarcastic and I don't relate to negative unsolicited opinions, especially when someone is questioning my intelligence on this serious subject. 

Come on lets not be so critical I knew what she was talking about!!!!!

Thanks for the encouragement!

I'm not even approved yet and I have some anxiety too. I think about it a lot, what it will be like to be on the losers bench, what it will be like not to be able to eat certain things, how I'll feel if some dude starts checking me out and I'm thrown off. Surgery is always scary, and this one will be life changing for us all. Part of me questions why I am choosing this elective surgery - but I've tried and failed so many times before I know it's the right decision for me, even though it kinda terrifies me too.

So as far as I know you're normal. If you start feeling abnormal, call a supportive friend to talk it out or your therapist. That's been my plan!

Sounds like a master plan. I know this is my last attempt for a healthy life. I am a diabetic and I have other medical issues. So, receiving Roux-En-Y is my best option. ( I made sure I used correct terminology based on a previous comment )  I pray you will receive a speedy response from your insurance company. I was approved in two days, which put everything in a fast motion than expected. I look forward to a second chance to life!!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!!