Hi I'm Bryan

 "Hi I'm X from X..." is not an uncommon phrase.  There are 6 Bryan Durel's on LinkedIn alone, from Pakistan to the Netherlands to the United States.

If this Bryan Durel is for real, he's been attacked and scared off by a mean spirited girl gang.  

Nice going, ladies, you should be proud.

 he isn't for real.

don't be silly.

 He may not be for real.  But he has done nothing or said nothing offensive.  How does it benefit you or others to be so unkind?

And what if this guy is looking for "funny" stuff to post on the internet. nobody has been really mean but it doesn't hurt to be a little cynical around here

arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2012/07/finding-the-mystery-man- behind-funnyjunk/

 it's trolling and it IS offensive if you understand it.

I have seen no unkindness myself. 

well, a tiny bit but I will over look it as I assume you are doing your best. 

The main reason I googled it was going to be to warn him to not use his real name as the google search engine would bring up this post, when I saw what was obviously a pattern I posted my message. I never said one mean word.

 I'd rather fooled by a con artist than be mean to a guy who is asking for help.  If it's the former...oh well, my integrity is intact.  If it's the latter, I'm a mean person.  *shrug*

i'm actually having trouble with obesity guys and it hurts to be knocked down like this :( .  i don't really care about my name - i could change it to 'SadAndFat'.

i've tried all sorts of things to lose weight - last year i even ordered myself some ephedra from ephedrine warehouse pills and took a course of those of those. i did zumba even out of frustration and hurt my back. i've tried walking and then eventually i just get really depressed and eat like mad at the nearest jack in the box.  and i've been feeling even sadder when my mom got sick and more prone to eating fits.

i drank a lot of red bulls post college because i was always up late sitting on my computer and working and i just don't know what to do anymore. i've even tried exercising and i end up pulling one thing or another and it just doesnt work :(

so i'm really sorry if i come off as someone who looks like a spam bot or something. i'll just go somewhere else.

and to please you all i 've edited my original post. if you don't want me around i will leave :(

 At your stated weight you would not qualify for weight loss surgery.  And as I stated originally googling the exact name you posted brought up some intersting things.  Care to explain?  Many people who have posted to this site have no idea when they use a real name how easily what they posted can be found with google.  But I am sure you are fully aware of that.