I Wish I Never Had Wls
On March 25, 2012 at 5:12 PM Pacific Time, Nikkal wrote:
whoa nellie!"my fiance just told me yesterday that he bought a 3 bed house for us"
the man you are planning to marry someday just bought a house for the two of you without you seeing it, without your input, without your agreement to move in?
red flag red flag danger will robinson danger!
that's a weird, controlling sort of behaviour that along with his anger issues scares me on your behalf.
men worth having try to understand your health issues, sympathize and adapt to accommodate them. Men worth having don't just buy houses for you to live in as a team without your input.
MY man (and hell, all my male friends, which is MOST of my friends) is capable of understanding that my health creates limitations...I wouldn't waste my time on a guy who didn't.
I would also like to point out that her fiancee is probably using every trick up his sleeve to get her back after she asked for a break (which she posted a few days ago) Having just "almost" bought a house (we close next Monday) I can assure you that nobody can just go out and buy a house! Even if you have cash in hand there are still things that need to be done before sitting around that big table at closing time.
Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense. - Buddha
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on 3/26/12 3:38 am
on 3/26/12 3:38 am
On March 26, 2012 at 7:38 AM Pacific Time, Sun Salutation wrote:
On March 25, 2012 at 5:12 PM Pacific Time, Nikkal wrote:
whoa nellie!"my fiance just told me yesterday that he bought a 3 bed house for us"
the man you are planning to marry someday just bought a house for the two of you without you seeing it, without your input, without your agreement to move in?
red flag red flag danger will robinson danger!
that's a weird, controlling sort of behaviour that along with his anger issues scares me on your behalf.
men worth having try to understand your health issues, sympathize and adapt to accommodate them. Men worth having don't just buy houses for you to live in as a team without your input.
MY man (and hell, all my male friends, which is MOST of my friends) is capable of understanding that my health creates limitations...I wouldn't waste my time on a guy who didn't.
I would also like to point out that her fiancee is probably using every trick up his sleeve to get her back after she asked for a break (which she posted a few days ago) Having just "almost" bought a house (we close next Monday) I can assure you that nobody can just go out and buy a house! Even if you have cash in hand there are still things that need to be done before sitting around that big table at closing time.
On March 26, 2012 at 10:38 AM Pacific Time, Christopher_J wrote:
On March 26, 2012 at 7:38 AM Pacific Time, Sun Salutation wrote:
On March 25, 2012 at 5:12 PM Pacific Time, Nikkal wrote:
whoa nellie!"my fiance just told me yesterday that he bought a 3 bed house for us"
the man you are planning to marry someday just bought a house for the two of you without you seeing it, without your input, without your agreement to move in?
red flag red flag danger will robinson danger!
that's a weird, controlling sort of behaviour that along with his anger issues scares me on your behalf.
men worth having try to understand your health issues, sympathize and adapt to accommodate them. Men worth having don't just buy houses for you to live in as a team without your input.
MY man (and hell, all my male friends, which is MOST of my friends) is capable of understanding that my health creates limitations...I wouldn't waste my time on a guy who didn't.
I would also like to point out that her fiancee is probably using every trick up his sleeve to get her back after she asked for a break (which she posted a few days ago) Having just "almost" bought a house (we close next Monday) I can assure you that nobody can just go out and buy a house! Even if you have cash in hand there are still things that need to be done before sitting around that big table at closing time.
Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense. - Buddha
yea... BTW - last year or year before she posted a whole list of complains about the same guy. She was adviced to dump him... yet she decided to stay, then agai same issues, and now this... ... now she is back with yet another story.
It is not new... I don't doubt she is hurting... but I am not sure what to believe in her stories. All her stories. At the same time - she stays in the same abusive relationship - she is not willing to help herself.
It is not new... I don't doubt she is hurting... but I am not sure what to believe in her stories. All her stories. At the same time - she stays in the same abusive relationship - she is not willing to help herself.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
I'm sorry but you are the most negative whiny person I have ever seen. You never post anything positive and are a real downer. Just get rid of that asshole and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
I had a cardiac arrest and a stent placed. I'm glad to be alive and not dwelling on it 24/7. Geesh you are a negative Nelly and I'm sick of hearing about your heart.
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