Damn men!
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on 1/31/12 10:47 pm
on 1/31/12 10:47 pm
I am almost 7 years out. I weigh 105 lbs. Use to weigh 276. Well there is a guy I thought I liked living in the appartment under me. Well he ask me to hang out with him. I'm 47 and he is 28. Well he got drunk and one of his friends (a girl) come over. Well she is very over weight. He was drunk and he told me how hot I am and then followed up with " I'm not trying to get with a fat chick". Talking bout the other girl. He don't know I was fat. But it still pissed me off I left. If he is into the looks he needs to look at himself. He is not prize either. He is a dumbass with no respect for women. I might be thin but I am still a fat girl in heart. I know the **** I went through being fat and don't like to hear people talking bout other. Was I wrong for getting pissed?
Amy
Amy
Did you just leave or did you explain to him why your attitude changed so swiftly? I know some people dont care to share their heavy past, but I will IF ONLY so people can realize that you never, really, know who you are talking to. If you only left, then you didnt help him understand anything, or help him realize that he might need to keep some things to himself.
Of course, again, I realize not everyone cares to share, but getting mad and doing nothing to clue him in doesnt seem helpful to anyone.
Edit to add, its not just men who have this attitude. Its the curse of an ignorant human, not a specific sex.
Of course, again, I realize not everyone cares to share, but getting mad and doing nothing to clue him in doesnt seem helpful to anyone.
Edit to add, its not just men who have this attitude. Its the curse of an ignorant human, not a specific sex.
Yeah, but he was drunk.
Never try to reason with a drunk person, is my motto!
Never try to reason with a drunk person, is my motto!
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(deactivated member)
on 1/31/12 11:03 pm
on 1/31/12 11:03 pm
yep and who is to say I will stay skinny. If I was to gain any weight back would he dump me? I think so. Even if he didn't know I was fat he still has no right to call anyone a fat chick. Even if I had always been skinny it would have made me mad. I hate the word fat! It would have pissed me off even if she was skinny and he called her ugly. I don't like name calling. We all have a name for a reason.
Amy
Amy
Nope, you sure weren't wrong to get pissed, and you sure were right to leave.
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Odd. Weren't you the one who had all the pro anorexia stuff on your previous profile? I am pretty sure I remember you had some very serious medical conditons that I doubt getting drunk with anyone are helping. And if you were so bothered, why didn't you tell him you used to be MO and were offended by his comment?
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