Going out tonight, husbands mad

Onmyachingfeet
on 11/19/11 7:12 am - RI
Uggghhhhh...so wish he wouldn't get so mad, I'm going out with my friends, not going to pick up guys, I'm very happy with our relationship and life but he feels that I've got a new body and attitude, that I got a whole new interest in this other life...NOT.
Thanks for listening.
            
poet_kelly
on 11/19/11 7:38 am - OH
Sounds like he has some insecurity going on.  Has he considered therapy to help him deal with that?

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Onmyachingfeet
on 11/20/11 6:35 am - RI
He would never, he's a wonderful man, a great father, my best friend, and I can never say enough to make him feel more secure about himself.
            
M M
on 11/19/11 8:32 am
So -- ask him to come with -- show him what you're up to?

No secrets.
Onmyachingfeet
on 11/20/11 6:33 am - RI
He's met all my friends, had been to the one gathering place we go to, so no secrets. He is just very insecure, always had been, probably always will be.
            
Mary Catherine
on 11/19/11 9:14 am
 Drag him along once or twice. He will be bored and also reassured.  Girls need their good times with their girlfriends to keep us balanced.
Amy Farrah Fowler
on 11/19/11 9:25 am
Bring him with, then make him dance with you. That cures most guys.
Onmyachingfeet
on 11/20/11 6:36 am - RI
Lol, that would be hilarious!!
            
Dave Chambers
on 11/19/11 9:50 am - Mira Loma, CA
Spounses can be insecure when their partner looks more attractive.  It works male or female.  Many relationships will have some issues in this regard.  Your words "new body and attitude" and he may think you want a new guy.  Call him a couple of times while your out and try to come home at a reasonable hour.  That will likely make him feel better. DAVE

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Onmyachingfeet
on 11/20/11 6:37 am - RI
Thanks Dave, good advise.
            
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