Anyone need a B*TCHFest?

Family who abandon you because you don't do what they think you should do.  They suck.

I'm too depressed to even *****

~Becky

I have not had surgery yet,so, there maybe some jealousy on my part. If I see one more post that says "I am 2 months post-op and I only lost 40lbs". I will ******g scream!! It would take me a 8 months to lose 40lbs, stop all your damn *****ing.

 Ohhhhhhhh boy can I sink myself into this thread!  I've been in a GRRRRRRRRRR mood all day! 

1.  I realize that we had horrendous tornados here in TN, and I do realize that all the power outtages did cost the power company money.  However.....it's your responsibility to make sure your **** is READY for any damn weather problem that pops up, not charge all of your customers 320.00++a month because you weren't prepared.  If my bill was high from something I personally did, you would tell me to take precautionary measures...how can the same NOT apply to you?

2.  I'm so mad at myself and this whole stopping smoking thing I could scream.  I've always been known as a strong woman, and yet something the size of my finger can still control me..ME, who HATES being controlled by anything.  Grrrrrrrr.....so I ***** moan and complain about quitting, and reach for yet another one, so I can ***** some more about it.  DUMBASS

3.  In reference to #2 and the whole smoking thing.......I take my old man to the emergency room over the weekend.  Now mind you, he has an appointment at the clinic I go to, but it's about 3 weeks away and he can barely breathe.  My husband has always been the strong silent type, bad ass, nothing bothers him type (I believe STUPID is another word for it), so they tell him his lungs are completely eat up with emphysema, his O2 wouldn't stablize at all, he's hacking up a lung all day every day, and they want to keep him.  He says no.  REALLY???  So I call the docs office where he has an appt and tell them how serious it is and they try to tell me that now they won't see him because of him going to an out of network emergency room.  WHATTTTTT????  Such freakin BS!

4.  This same docs office, that I've went to for the past 12 years has somehow lost my past records, which is now affecting my surgery process.  C'mon now.....I can see storing the records somewhere else, but to just not know where they went?  Ya kidding me......


5. I noticed in a different posts about grown kids asking for  money......I sooo know where you're coming from!  I have raised my kdis....done my time....I'm tired.  Fix your own supper, wash your own clothes, and for God's sake manage your money better....your father and I can't afford children anymore.

I'm going to leave this alone for now, before I spontaneiously combust from all the frustration I'm feeling right now.  Great thread btw.....LOL

I need one of these today... Can we say PMS?
I hate when there is a specific person at my job that doesnt want to have to deal with me when it comes to ANYTHING. She runs to the BIG MAN for EVERYTHING. She irritates the HELL outta me.
I hate when "friends" make plans with you and BAIL last minute.
I hate when you try to keep a friendship and it seems that you are the only one that is putting forth any effort. You can actually make that ANY realtionship. IM TIRED.
And I HATE the fact that my daughters father has been on drugs for 2 years and refused to go to REHAB. (but that is for another board, another time)
And I hate that all of a sudden I am second guessing the surgery thing. i dunno why...

GREAT THREAD!

Jess

My husband is has serious health problems and has basicly given up on everyting.  Sits in front of the TV all day and sleeps.  That or outside smoking, which adds to his health problems.  He's driving me up the wall and depends on me to do all the things such as bill payments,  groceries, etc.  You get the idea.  Plus, he sleeps in the family room  and wears the same cloths day in and day out.  Thinking of how to get a divorce.  What makes it worse is that I want SEX like yesterday.  It's not like that I'm ugly.  I'm not.  Believe me,  I have men checking me out all the time.  The wives get really pissed off when they check me out.(that's one bonus)

I LOVE these threads!  It reminds me I'm not alone.

I'm not feelin' a lot of love for some of my family right now, but especially my one and only sib, my YOUNGER brother.  I hate how he has done so much better than I in so many areas but especially financially....YOUNGER brother doing better, and we are STILL living paycheck to paycheck with gaps between much of the time.  I hate how VERY different we are, and he tends to look down on those differences.  I hate how he has no respect for me whatsoever.  Most of the time, I can set it all aside as his problem, but lately it's getting on my nerves.  He doesn't have any kids but certainly has some strong opinions about how I should be raising mine.  And last I hate how he adores my daughter but doesn't like my son, and my already insecure son is starting to really notice.

I am SOOOOOOOOOOO sick of living paycheck to paycheck and constantly behind on everything.  I have been looking for a job for over two years, and if one more person tells me the recession is over, I'm gonna have to kill them.  If it weren't for my kids and hubby, that might not be a bad idea...go to jail, get three square meals and no bills to worry about.  Hmmm...

We are doing everything we can to bring in more income, but my family (extended family) doesn't see it that way.  It's not as simple as taking any job that's out there, but the judgment just keeps on comin'.   

Right now, I'm not liking myself a whole lot either...but that would take up way too much time and room to explain.  

Love this forum..!   

First of all let me start off by saying that I am grateful for being alive, the surgery etc.. but I have to get on my soapbox about some things..

LAZY people.. Is it really going to kill you to walk 20 feet to throw your trash away or take the grocery basket back?? Are you fu@king kidding me??

CLUELESS people.. They don't know better than to bite the hand that feeds you.. Get a clue you fu@king idiot..

Parents that don't teach thier kids manners..

And last but not least RUDE people.. You don't have to like me but just don't look at me like I owe you money..

- I am so tired of people including my family telling me that you do not need to get the surgery, you just need to watch what you eat. DUUUUUUUH I tried everything and I do not need to hear that bull**** over and over again!

- I am so tired of my entire paycheck being gone before I  even go to the bank! This is every two weeks. I spend my money on bills and my kids....nothing on me! That is just me being a good mother.

- I am the youngest child in my family and I hate when my mother tells all of my business to my older brothers. Like I ask her why does she do that? They do not tell me their business because you know why we are all grown and we do not need to know each other business.

- I had a lease car (something that I will never do again) and they are saying that I owe 10,000.00 for over the mileage fee...ok that is crazy that is not about to happen. **** that is another damn car not that they want me to pay.....never ever lease through GMAC!

Okay I feel better!