Considering the RnY? Please educate yourself. These threads are a place to start.

I got to my doctors goal.   Then I gained 10 pounds with the boys.  I want to lose about 40 pounds to put me at 110 or so.  That is a personal thing for me.  My rny worked for me and I'm greatful.  I dodn't mean to offend anyone.  I'm sorry you are having issues.  Of course my husband says I would look sick at 110.  But that is what I have always dreamed of weighting.  I'm happy with my weight loss dont get me wrong.  And I know I am one of the lucky ones who didn't have issues.  I hate it that others do have issues.

You sound so angry..  You also sound as if you are in some type of denial, I can't make out what it really is.  If you are on this site and you have been so successful then what are you doing in these rooms?  Also for you to say that you do not have no problems at all its really hard to believe.  Especially coming from a person that had surgery i***** and eats and drinks at the same time.  You remember that is one of the first things they discourage us from doing, they want us to seperate our liquids from food.  Don't be so mean, these rooms are full of different people but they are actually pretty cool and knowledgeable and perhaps if you came across with less anger we can learn from one another. 

Warm regards,

Santos in Bronx, NY 

I didn't mean to sound so mean.  I'm sorry it came across that way.  And yes, I don't have any issues at all.  I know they discourage drinking and eating at the say time but it is so hard for me.  I'm not in denial.  I am on this site and rooms because one I just had a baby last year and I do still check in on some people even though I normally don't post.  I wish I could get you proof because I don't have a single issue.  If you want to call it an issues, then I dump on sugar and get a sick feeling if I eat to much.  That is it.  I had my done in May of (oops.  I made a mistake) 04.  I am getting all my dates mixed up.  Sorry.  My daughter was born in 94. lol  But still, that is a good distants out.  I think.. I really didn't mean to sound angry at all.  I feel bad actually, I feel terrible.  I am not a mean person.  I am a loving person and just want to help people.  My heart is broken now and I want to tell everyone I'm sorry for sounding so mean.  I will go back and delete it bucause that was not my intention at all.  I just want people to know that you can do good with the rny if it is right for you but do tond of research first.  I'm sorry if you thought I was mean.  That's not what I wanted at all.  Maybe I'll go into the lurking mode again.  I hope your journey is a great one.

Don't worry about it, it was really nice that you apologized.  You know, you really did not have to. You are a nice person:). Also, I am glad that you picked up on the fact that you got your dates mixed up, I was saying to myself 1994?, something does not sound right.  It was really nice meeting you and I hope we can interact sometime in the future.  I wish you the best in your journey.

Regards,

Santos:)

It's really nice of you to apologize---but DON'T DELETE POSTS! EVER! That just makes the thread hard for others to understand, and it leaves folks wondering what you said that was so terrible. (*grin*)

where the heck were you when i needed a slap to the back of my head...???

I'm sorry if anyone read my post that I deleted.  I was not trying to be hateful, mean, rude, or anything.  I feel terrible that someone's feelings were hurt.  Please forgive me, for I am not that type of person.  I also got my dates mixed up. I had rny in 04.  I had my daughter in 94. Again, I am sorry if I upset anyone.

I didn't read the post you deleted, but I just want to say I'm sure you were just saying what you thought and felt, and I think that should be tolerated around here.

Please keep posting, and keep us updated re: your progress!