I ate what!!!
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on 9/24/11 12:22 am - Califreakinfornia , CA
on 9/24/11 12:22 am - Califreakinfornia , CA
On September 24, 2011 at 7:18 AM Pacific Time, Jolena P. wrote:
assholiness?? The funny thing is I do feel empowered now. I have let him know he can no longer bring food over. I have let him know alot of things lately...that's why we are seperated! And trust me, he has tried to kick my ass before...literally! and again...that's why we are not together..I'm so glad I'm able to figure these things out before surgery! Thanks for your support!!
Docj
on 9/24/11 10:47 am
on 9/24/11 10:47 am
Revision on 09/01/88
Ain't a thing "holy" about that dude's behavior... Do agree with kicking his ass though...
You did it. It's done. You can't change it. Go on.
The thing is to learn from your own history and it looks like that is what you are trying to do. Beating yourself up will just make it worse for you.
The thing is to learn from your own history and it looks like that is what you are trying to do. Beating yourself up will just make it worse for you.
Elizabeth
Back in the U.S.A.
"I have lost the lumbering hulk that I once was. I don't hide behind my clothes or behind my door. I am part of life's rich tapestry not an observer." Kirmy
Relax. Of all the things you COULD have eaten, chicken isn't a bad choice---even *gasp!* FRIED chicken.
You're still pre-op, so you have no 'tool' to help you resist in moments of weakness. That WILL change, once you have surgery. But remember, YOU are the one changing. Other people will always and forever be eating things that perhaps you shouldn't.
You're still pre-op, so you have no 'tool' to help you resist in moments of weakness. That WILL change, once you have surgery. But remember, YOU are the one changing. Other people will always and forever be eating things that perhaps you shouldn't.
Awesome post, Elizabeth. You are spot on, imo. Thank you for this response.
5.0 cc in a 10cc lapband (four fills) 1 unfill of .5cc on 5/24/2011.
.5 fill March 2012. unfill of .25cc May 2012. Unfill of .5cc June 2014.
Still with my lapband with no plans for revision. Band working well since
last small unfill.
HW: 267lbs- size 22-24 LW:194lbs CW:198lbs Size 14-16