B*TCHFest, because I promised you all

Frankly, from what you've described, he's dead weight.  He comes to your place to crash every night and get laid.  You're not getting any joy out of the relationship.  He bores you to tears.  You have a child and he's not helping you financially.  Occasional babysitting you can pay for yourself.

You can do better, even if you're by yourself for a minute.  You're not doing this guy any favors either if he's not the one you really want.  Eventually he's going to pick up on the way you really feel.

Don't let fear of being alone keep you tied to somebody you know in your heart that you don't want.  There ARE some good men out there, but you will never find the right one if you let old boy block your blessing.

*sigh*  Thank you for the response.  The truth hurts.  :( 

 Are you in a commited relationship?  If not, go out and have fun.  Let him know he is free to do the same.  If you are in a commited relationship it may be time to rethink that.  You don't have to make any decisions.  If you are not sure he is the "one" then don't tie yourself down.  You don't need to dump him, just put him on notice that you aren't sure you are ready to be in a commited relationship at this time in your life but if he would like, you can still date.  Date like picking you up at the door and picking up the check.  If that isn't ok with him, then I guess you have your answer.  Dating is cool.  Every guy should treat a woman like a lady and if you aren't getting that then you are looking in the wrong places.

Ooh, ooh, my turn!! I like this kind of game!

I hate the guy who lives 2 streets over from us that feels the need to rev up his very loud motorcycle all day long while he's working on it, that I can hear from 2 streets over!

I hate the diabetic police (who are not diabetics) that tell me I can't have anything that has sugar in it.

I hate bosses that dismiss an idea that I have....but then submit it as their idea to their bosses....and get praised for it!

There are more, i'm sure.   Tis but a small sample....

-Why must some oh-ers send me msgs. asking me why am I having rny cuz i only have 70-80 pounds to lose??? not big enough 4 you??
-Do you have to show your breast to everyone?
-CAN YOU PLEASE STOP WEARING YOUR PJ'S IN THE STORES!
-You know your clothes are to small. Can you please go up a size and this will stop you from pulling your pants up every time you move.
-Must SOME and again I SAY SOME...of the vets here.....can you please bring your nose out of the air because you have confidence now! IT DOES'NT FEEL GREAT TO A SEMI NEWBIE TO BE AND PRE-OP WHEN TRYING TO GATHER INFO. WERE YOU NOT OVERWEIGHT BEFORE THE SURGERY???????????????????????????????/
-Is there a need to play your music soooo loud in your car?
-Are you serious? You really think that President Obama can fix 10 years of a past mess within a year?? REALLY?? REALLY??
-Must you keep disrespecting our President because you have a problem with his color????? The ones that have been caught with racist remarks and gorilla drawings. GET OVER IT!
-Do you really have to leave your house and start talking on ur cell phone at 7am.
-Must you try to kill me on the road because your text and convo CANNOT WAIT TIL YOU GET TO A RED LIGHT OR PULL OVER??????
-Why are your children walking behind you and not in front of you??
-Why does it irritate some of the OH vets when new comers or early out post-ops ask questions that you've seen before?? I GUESS YOU WOULD IF YOU HAVE BEEN A POST OP FOR 3 YEARS!!! NEWSFLASH.........YOU DON'T OWN THE SITE!
-Why do you think it is cute to carry your DOG in a dog case in the GROCERY STORE?
-Why do you expect for people to stop eating around you after YOU have your surgery?
-Yes,I have a unique name....why does it bother you?
-Yes I have 5 tats......SO YOUR THEORY IS WRONG. I WAS HIRED IN MY CAREER WITH MY TATS. I am not a office chick so I can be myself.
-MUST YOU CALL A BLACK PERSON GHETTO?? I have less than tactful friends and they are different races. They are a little rough around the edges but I love them dearly because they have a good heart.
-Why do you complain about your boobs? Do you know that some women have cancer and no breast at all? BE GREATFUL!
-Why do you call someone else the n* word that is the same race but someone outside your race...you get offended? DO YOU NOT KNOW THAT OUR ANCESTORS ARE SHAKING THEIR HEADS WHEN YOU DO THIS? THIS IS DISREPECTFUL TO YOUR OLDER RELATIVES THAT DEALT WITH THIS?
-Must you look at me funny because I am a single parent? Are you giving me kudo's for playing both roles?ahhhhh moment.
-Why do you think it's cute to puff your cigarette near me? I don't want to inhale that.

I love your post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  My personal favorites:

Can you please stop wearing your PJ's in the store.  That is past tacky!!

Why are your kids walking behind you and not in front of you.???????????  That always tears me a new a**hole.  Especially when the kids are little.  A car could run over them, a stranger could snatch them, anything!!

I call all races of people ghetto.  I think ghetto is a state of mind and a certain display of behavior, that isn't limited to just black people. 

I am also way over the disrespect toward the POTUS simply because he is black...and the monkey drawing and etc.... is simply over kill!!

Thanks. hahahahaha
My friend Candie is white and she is sooooo not tactful and her parents are well educated. ha!

OH YEAH, I LEFT THIS OUT......Hey ma, I don't want to be what you wanted me to be. PARENTS, please don't do this to your kids. I knew I was out of the box around the age of 14. My hairstyles screamed....hairstylist. haha

I lost my engagement ring from my wedding set! It must have fallen off when I was helping clean up after church Sunday night, no one can find it...damn shrinking fingers!
We're beyond broke and having 2 WLSers isn't helping as now we both need protein, vitamins, quality food...and the cost of everything keeps going up! (I know we made that choice! It's been a hard adjustment from having one wlser to both of us which doubles the cost of everything needed!)
The AC in my car stopped working and we're having 106+ degree days here in FL and I replaced the AC compressor less than two years ago and the car is making horrid noises when it runs and there's no $$ to fix it.
The antibiotics I'm on for a UTI are making me sick.
My anxiety level is through the roof and I'm bordering on going postal!
I'm with you on the Dogs barking at any noise and every person or car that comes near the house.

It's just been one of those weeks....when it rains...it pours and everything makes me want to scream!!

Asswipe, do you really think that that one bright light isn't going to still blind me?  Get your headlights fixed, you lazy ass.

If you can't afford a motel room then don't go to the cheapest place in town and ***** about the rates, sleep in your car - it's free.  Also, if the place looks like a dump on the outside it will on the inside.  Some of the rooms are gonna smell too.

Please, stop attempting and/or succeeding in suicide at my place of employment, I don't like to testify in open court nor do I like to find your dead body or smell your rotting corpse. Dead people smell really really bad.

If the place is over booked, then close the GD property. (You know who you are.) I don't want to have irate people *****ing at me because they don't have a room when they arrive.  

Stop singing, you can't carry a tune and those are not the right lyrics.

STFU you aren't funny and I can't stand all those rhymes.  Are you mentally ill or what?

No, I'm not going to dig around you infected thumb with a pin.  Go to the f'n Dr. for an antibiotic, it's been two weeks forgawdsake.  A $30 copay isn't going to break you.  Nor is the price of the antibiotic.

Stop tailgating.

If you block the aisle talking I'm gonna ask you to move out of my way.  Don't like It?  I don't care.

Crack my ankles with that cart one more time and I'm going to slug you, pay attention.

And the list goes on.......

 

 

 

Ima guessing you work in a hotel? I quit when mine was sold to another Patel