K... guess surgery is out for me for now!

Thanks for the advice...    maybe another me would have done that, but I have learned that as a big woman, I rarely get attention for anything other than being big!  I have a sneaking suspicion that this is where this guy's attitude comes from and neither me nor anyone else is going to change his mind about that.  Jumping up and down and making a lot of noise is going to do NOTHING but humiliate me even further.

I'm pretty sure people like that count on this...