** WHY EAT AROUND YOUR SURGERY***
You asked a question. You got an answer from BLR. You obviously didn't get what she was saying. So she explained again. Which you again didn't "get." Seems pretty simple. No acting out. No harsh words (yet, as I have not read down further than this post of yours). Just you not wanting to understand that people are people and that people do all sorts of things. Oh, and that food isn't intrisically bad in and of itself. I think that's the part you really don't get. But that's my impression.
You will be the same person after surgery as you were before surgery. Your wants and desires will be the same. If you don't get that, then maybe you shouldn't have any surgery at all.
~ Sarah P. 
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They're here! My surro-sons were born July 21, 2009. Welcome to the world, Benjamin and Daniel. We love you very much!
on 1/12/11 11:39 pm - .., WA
Trust people when they say, you don't understand until you have had the surgery. Really. You will still make mistakes. You will still be human.
You have been on Weigh****chers I'm sure... It didn't work. Why? Is it because you did things you have done in the past. Did you eat off plan? Why? Your human.
Yes, it would be wonderful to never eat bad things and stay perfectly on plan. Yes, the surgery is a huge gift. All of this is true. It helped me lose weight I had not been able to lose in the past. I am grateful for the surgery.
However, I have messed up here and there. I wish I hadn't. I certainly didn't plan to. I was disappointed that I did. But, I did. I imaging most of us have.
Please just be realistic. Listen to the people here that have actually had the surgery and lived the life. There is a lot of wonderful support here. They know.
I wish you well on this journey. I wish you much success. Take care.
that is ok...you prolly need some action today. I forgive you...giggles
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"Keeping The Faith!" "Slim by Summer!"
HW: 250 - SW: 241 - CW: 154.7- GW: 140
1 month: 22 pounds (216) 2 months: 12.2 pounds (203.8) 3 months: 10.6 (193.2)
4 months: 9.7 lbs (183.5) 5 Months: 6 pounds (177.5 ) 6 Months: 12 lbs ( 165.5)
7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!! 2.6 pounds (148.4)
Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011 (199.7)
"Half-Way Goal" April 25th, 2011 (194.8)
"Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011 (189.6)
"Groovyland 70`s" June 20th 2011 (179.9)
" HippyDippyland 60's" July 16th (169.8)
" CQQL-land 50`s" August 25th ( 159.8)
"Normal BMI" 24.8 October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6
"AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011 (149)
"Century Club 100 Pounds" Dec 1st 2011 (149)
' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"
Two Year Surgiversary!!!"
