Are you a food addict? How can you tell?
Enjoying food does not make one a food addict. I did not lie or cheat or steal to get a donut or a salad, nor was all of my energies and focus directed on when and how I would get the next morsel of food. I think that the label food addict, is an inaccurate, simplistic and dismissive description of a complex dynamic process. A process that is made up of cultural/social mores, brain function, physiological processes, and emotional/psychological processes.
I think that the term food addict is used to deflect from the real issues and causes of obesity. And many people use the term to justify throwing up their hands in defeat. Hence the 12 step model "I am an addict and as such I am powerless". One may be powerless to control their obesity because of metabolic functions but it is certainly not because they are simply weak, lazy or lack motivation.
Red
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http://www.bnl.gov/bnlweb/pubaf/pr/2002/bnlpr052002.htm
http://www.sciencenews.org/view/generic/id/48605/title/Junk_ food_turns_rats_into_addicts
I don't remember if I listed how I knew I was an addict but here are a just a few:
I ate to numb out pain, to self medicate myself into oblivion. Did I have a sucky metabolism? yes. Were my family large? yes. I still exhibited all of the characteristics of an addict. I recognized them from my brother and other close relatives. It runs parallel and the behavior is the same. Of course one of the primary characteristics of addiction is denial. It was only when I saw my addictive behavior that I was able to work on it and start to heal. If we are not addicts why is there so much cross addiction? I'm sure there are many with faulty metabolisms but to say that most are not addicts when there is so much information to point to the contrary only keeps people in the depth of their denial. I am not ashamed....now. I WAS ashamed and consumed with guilt before surgery.
I failed at every diet for 30 years. I WAS a failure.
I ate when I wasn't hungry, I self loathed afterwards and repeated the cycle over and over. Many have extreme family of origin issues. We also have so many abuse and sexually molested victims in our community...so many trying to bury extreme pain from their past. Opening up this subject will help many post-ops. Thank you.
Open RNY 3/30/01 260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog! Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page. Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨
http://www.bnl.gov/bnlweb/pubaf/pr/2002/bnlpr052002.htm
http://www.sciencenews.org/view/generic/id/48605/title/Junk_ food_turns_rats_into_addicts
I don't remember if I listed how I knew I was an addict but here are a just a few:
I ate to numb out pain, to self medicate myself into oblivion. Did I have a sucky metabolism? yes. Were my family large? yes. I still exhibited all of the characteristics of an addict. I recognized them from my brother and other close relatives. It runs parallel and the behavior is the same. Of course one of the primary characteristics of addiction is denial. It was only when I saw my addictive behavior that I was able to work on it and start to heal. If we are not addicts why is there so much cross addiction? I'm sure there are many with faulty metabolisms but to say that most are not addicts when there is so much information to point to the contrary only keeps people in the depth of their denial. I am not ashamed....now. I WAS ashamed and consumed with guilt before surgery.
I failed at every diet for 30 years. I WAS a failure.
I ate when I wasn't hungry, I self loathed afterwards and repeated the cycle over and over. Many have extreme family of origin issues. We also have so many abuse and sexually molested victims in our community...so many trying to bury extreme pain from their past. Opening up this subject will help many post-ops. Thank you.
Open RNY 3/30/01 260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog! Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page. Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨
Open RNY 3/30/01 260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog! Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page. Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨
buying pie or cake late at night (after rest of family in bed) and eating some then throwing the rest away so no one would see it. Than the next day when home alone going and getting it out of the trash and eating the rest.
now that's what I call a food addict!
Open RNY 3/30/01 260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog! Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page. Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨
I did not think I was a food addict. I actually denied it like everyone else. I did not realize I had an addiction to food until I had to see a nutritionist before surgery. I was told to write down when I ate and what mood I was in. I found out that stress and boredum where the triggers.
After surgery I thought it would all go away. Until one day when I was at work and bored that I realized I was eating food for no reason. Now I try and make myself aware when I put food in my mouth if I am really hungry or something else is going on to trigger me to be hungry.
When under stress I try to chew sugar free gum or exercise.
Tonimarie