"Fat Cow" in the pool (help!)
Hugs to all pre and post ops and may you continue on your amazing wls journey.
Terry
It sure is good C'ING LESS OF ME!
We could learn a lot from crayons:
some are sharp, some are pretty,
some are dull, some have weird names,
& all are different colors....but they
ALL exist very nicely in the same box.
(Author Unknown)
Before I had weight loss surgery I went to the YMCA for water aerobics classes. I was usually the youngest one there, however the senior citizens did not make me feel like I was out of place.
I know how this lady feels when I was about 19 years old I was laying on the beach at the causway in FL and a car load of boys road by and screamed "Beached Whale"!!! I thought I was going to die!!!
But, you know things do change, I now go to the pool in a bikini (with the scars from having redundant skin removed and all). I hold my head high and feel good about the way I look! It took a lot of years to feel this way....but you too can feel this way! Just keep working towards your goal and never stop!
Ginger
Open RNY 3/27/01 400 lbs - 170lb. Please visit my blog at www.gingerrock.blogspot.com. You can also find me on facebook www.facebook.com/GingerRock and Twitter www.twitter.com/GingerRock
~Ginger~
Around where I am I do have a pool that is mostly used by seniors.. and I am the youngest at 57!
I live in a mobile home park and our park is strict about no toys, floats, etc. I am darn short at 4'9 and even in the 5 foot end it is over my head... which is ok. but here is the deal. They will not allow a "noodle" in the pool. Do you think if I asked my physician for a note, would they have to? I really would like to walk in the pool which is easiest when you use the noodle. Do they have a obligation to let me if it is for medial reasons.... ie. therapy...?
By the way... my almost 4 year old granddaugher Makayla... piped up a couple of weeks ago.. Grandma Kris.. I want flappy arms like you do... . LOL She is far to young to know this is not always going to be seen on adults... I had to laugh... and moved on so she would not focus on the conversation....
I haven’t been called a “fat cow", but I was once called a “beached whale". With that said, ignorance is everywhere and cruel people are all around. Before I lost my weight, the best place for me to swim was in my own pool in my backyard. I really don’t think there is such a thing as a “safe public place" for an obese person to swim…and that is very sad.
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The hospital I had my surgery has a bariatric rehab program which is shared with the cardiac rehab. The gym is scheduled so that only bariatric patients use it at a certain time and the cardiac patients only use on their scheduled times. It made my experience of a gym much more pleasant. Unfortunately, no pool at the gym, but I have heard that some local YMCA's do schedule certain times for people, especially during the school year.
My personal experience was awful. When I was at 276 and went to a pool, I broke the ladder leading out of the pool. I was mortified and that was one of my moments when I knew something had to be done and that I needed medical help.
I use the Rec Centers here in the county where I live and I have told many in my support group about it. They also have water arboics, and other things to do. I really like going there because it is not around a lot of people that judge you for what you look like. I still have a lot of skin hanging with no hope of having it removed. So for me going here I have no-one judging me for what I still look like. I very happy to be where I'm at today.
Thanks for all you have done with OBESITY HELP, you are WONDERFUL.
Hugs'
Jeannie
OH Support Group Leader
RNY 07/27/06
sw358/ cw 175/ qw 175 to 160
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