Jewels,

The Lord gives us blessings that aren't always packaged the way we would expect.

You said you had pain. That's not normal.  Have they determined what that is from?

Take a deep breath.  The Lord won't give you more than you can handle.  You are justifiably in shock.  You've barely had time to adjust to your post-surgery body and whammy.

How is your husband handling the news being away?  It must be so hard for him.  Be sure to give him constant updates so he feels a part of it all.  Do you have family to close by to help you?

We're here for you. Take your vitamins, listen to the doctors, and be healthy.  That's #1. 

Look at those beautiful little girls and know that you are about to have another blessing.  It's all going to be okay.

Oh sweety, my heart goes out to you.  I know finding out your are pregnant isn't always roses and balloons.  After my daughter was born I went into peripartum cardiomyopathy.  It was heart failure related to pregnancy.  I was having everything done to have gastric bypass when I found out I was pregnant again.  I was devastated.  I almost terminated due to the risk because of my heart but backed out, then found out it was twins.  I'm sorry you are having to go through this while your hubby is gone.  You have friends and people that really do care.  I always have a set of ears and shoulders here even if I don't always know the right things to say.  I will be hoping and praying that everything is okay for the lil one and for you.  If crackheads can have healthy babies with no prenatal care what so ever, there is hope that everything will be okay for you.  As far as not being excited, I understand, I cried to my hubby on webcam the other night because it is sooo overwhelming sometimes with the twins and our daughter, him gone and no help here.  Hugssss sweety!

What did you tell your husband and how did he react?

Oh Jewels.  You've barely had time to adjust to your post-surgery self and whammy. 

You said you were in pain, did they figure out why? 

I'll keep you in my prayers.  Please try to be healthy and keep us posted on what the doctors say.

This must be hard on your husband, being away.  Keep him updated on all that's going on so he can be a part of it.  Look at those little angels you have and know that you're about to have another one.  {{{HUG}}}

Wow.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Babies come first for all nutritional needs, if your not eating it and the baby needs something it will come from your body so not gaining is no big deal.

I wish you well and hope this all works out for you. 

Jewles,

Not all babies are planned but, all babies are blessings :) You are in shock right now that's all. I understand, you didn't expect this. Now that the baby is here its time to adjust.

You need to get to the doc right away and be sure you are doing well with vitamins and such.

I wouldn't think you have much to worry about in the weight gain category. Your over 1/2 way done and have lost so don't stress.

Call everyone in your circle of love and round up what you are going to need, get the support you need and get ready to welcome your baby home. Congratulations :)

Worse things could have happened..It could have been a hernia stranglating you...it could have been cancer...it could have been a 1000 different things.. consider yourself blessed and know ya got it going on...
if having the baby is out of the question consider adoption...
For me i f I was told I was pregnant I would be singing praises since...y could be in my shoes cant get pregnant and have had 6 hernia surgeries and 6 others due to compications from my rny..which would u want..btw I almost died

I agree with PP. Atleast you can get PG.  My hubby and I cant. I have blocked falopian tube and stage 4 endometriosis and my hubbies little guys are deformed and dont swim... and we cant.. even after 13 IUIS and 4 IVFs. We ended up becoming foster parents and adopting 3 kids with FAS. So Please.. if you dont want the baby then make an adoption plan.. There are many people that wouldLOVE the opportunity to parent a baby wnd and have waited for years and even decades for such a blessing.

Ami

Like me! I would love to adopt.

Then you should!!! think about all the children in Haiti right now hell all the kids here....why have you not yet?