16 Reasons Not To Diet
"But, 'SNOT a DIET!" 16 Reasons Not To Diet.
This morning, a morning after a long weekend, I suspect many of my WLS sisters are Not On A Diet.
Reading message boards and Facebook pages, everybody is "gonna do liquids for a while," "on my first day of the X day pouch diet," "starting Weigh****chers," "eating grapefruit and coffee until my stomach revolts," etc, etc...
What gets me about THIS, (because you all know I am right there along with you all, I consistently put my Head In Diet Mode) is the notion that Eating After Weight Loss Surgery Is Not A Diet. It's A Lifestyle And A "Tool."
Eating less on purpose or leaving out certain types of food, is a DIET. The way most of us simply go about our nutrition post surgery IS A DIET.
di·et 1 (dt)
1. Of or relating to a food regimen designed to promote weight loss in a person or an animal: the diet industry.
2.
a. Having fewer calories.
b. Sweetened with a noncaloric sugar substitute.
3. Designed to reduce or suppress the appetite: diet pills; diet drugs.
v. di·et·ed, di·et·ing, di·ets
v.intr.
To eat and drink according to a regulated system, especially so as to lose weight or control a medical condition.
v.tr.
To regulate or prescribe food and drink for.
For every post WLS'er that says eating post-operatively is a Lifestyle, I'll show you TEN who say eating post-operatively is a Diet.
It's a diet that goes from pseudo-anorexia, particularly in gastric bypassed patients (Hat tip to the DS'ers reading this who will say, "But We Can Just Eat, I'm Sorry You Can't.), pseudo-bulimia in some, and then, a reduced calorie diet for long term, except for lapses when we just EAT without real concern. Sometimes because we are stressed, or simply because "It's Christmas/birthday/The Superbowl!" and have a legit 'reason.' ;)
Most of us are always counting SOMETHING: whether it's protein grams, calories, carbohydrates, fats, or all of them, we're consistently revolving our post op lives around our DIET. And, as most of you know from living before your surgery -- diets fail. That's why they are so successful, the plans that is, not necessarily US who GO ON THEM. Show me a diet plan that WORKS? (I will try it! :x ....)
How many of us went out and bought some new "products" this January -- for the New Year? Who went and signed up for the gym? Who bought The Biggest Loser exercise DVD at Wal-Mart? Maybe a couple cases of Slim Fast?
I know I did. I got a stack of protein bars, some shakes, and planned to integrate them into my daily intake in an attempt to replace the carbs I keep falling back on. I'm "on a diet." (When am I not? LOL.)
Need a reason not to "go on a diet?" Here's a list of 16, fromVenus Diva --
1) Many diets support the use of non-nutritional, highly chemicalized foods like fake fats and fake sugars. These chemicalized foods negatively affect body chemistry, cause low-level undernourishment, and often encourage overeating when the dieter gets the signal that s/he is not getting properly nourished.
2) Diets have such a high failure rate that they really are a gamble with a low chance of success. Why not just play Keno? If you look at the fine print of most studies on diets, they will tell you that, despite potential immediate success in limited numbers, diets have a 90-99% long-term failure rate. People lose some weight, only to find their weight creep back up, often surpassing their initial, pre-diet weight. Even the “successful” dieters often don’t keep all of their weight off.
3) Dieting gives dieters the message that they cannot trust their internal sense of what nourishes them. This distrust of internal signals affects other aspects of a dieter’s life, where they seek external approval and control of their non-food related actions.
4) The diet industry has a deep interest in the failure of dieters — if everyone got skinny, they’d go out of business.
5) Dieters’ self esteem is often tied to their weight — they feel good about themselves when they’re losing weight and bad about themselves when they’re gaining weight. This is a particular problem given item #2, if most dieters regain the weight they lose, they spend much of their lives feeling bad about themselves.
6) The diet system reinforces low self esteem in dieters by making them feel like they have no “willpower” when they have diet lapses. In actuality, diets encourage people to ignore their internal will in exchange for the perceived will of the diet industry. This out of control feeling reinforces low self esteem and makes dieters feel out of control in other areas of their lives.
7) Rather than being about nourishment, food often becomes about reward and punishment for dieters.They let themselves have a “treat” because they’ve been “good” on their diets and deprive themselves when they’ve been “bad.” Food is a necessary part of life. When food is about reward and punishment, we override our internal cues about what our bodies actually need.
Diets cause dieters (who are often women) to revolve their lives around food rather than other things that may really matter to them (relationships, careers, social issues). Who knows how many great ideas, inventions, beautiful relationship etc. the world is missing out on because so many of us are so obsessed with dieting.
9) Diets cause a lot of body hatred, particularly when the dieter isn’t losing weight. Dieters tend to see their bodies as wrong and problematic when they’re not seeing the “results” they want. But really, body and mind are connected, and this false conflict creates a great deal of unhappiness.
10) Diets often categorize foods as good/okay vs. bad/forbidden. Just like our culture’s genesis story revolves around a woman eating a forbidden food (the apple), it’s human nature to want what’s forbidden. Thus, it’s no wonder that dieters often crave forbidden foods even more once they are forbidden, and then hate themselves for eating those foods (maybe because they’re made to feel as though they’ve caused all of humanity to become sinners).
11) Diets encourage what I like to call “lottery thinking” — most dieters know that diets haven’t really worked for them nor most of the people they know, yet they think that some new diet is going to make them thin, and they’ll finally be in that tiny successful group. This creates a great deal of disappointment for dieters who are constantly trying to achieve something that is nearly impossible.
12) Most diet programs are expensive. I cringe when I think about the money that I and my friends and family have spent over the years on Weigh****chers, special shakes and diet pills!
13) For some people, diets are like Band-aids on deep scars. For people *****ally overeat and eat unconsciously, they often eat to numb their feelings and consciousness. Their issue is not really “portion control.” In fact, they often are too controlling of themselves and their emotions.
14) Diets assume that all fat people eat too much. They don’t account for the fact that people come in all shapes and sizes, and that a person’s weight is not an indicator of overall health.
15) The weight loss/gain cycle created by dieting is more stressful on the body than just being plain, old fat.
16) Diets work on a scarcity principle. Diets make dieters focus on lack, tell them they can only have “this much and no more” and that to want more is a bad thing. Because dieting is so all-encompassing, this scarcity principle often filters into other aspects of dieters’ lives. They begin to see lack and scarcity in their relationships, in their jobs, and in the world.
What would you add to this list?
About The Author: Golda Poretsky, H.H.C. of Body Love Wellness is a certified holistic health counselor with a degree in integrative nutrition from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. Using Health At Every Size principles, she counsels women and men on how to get off the dieting roller coaster, give their bodies what they really crave, and love their bodies and themselves.
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Hey Ya MM
I just can't do the Diet thing anymore!! Diet DIIIIIIIIET
DIet dIet DDDDDDDIEEEET DIEt DIEt DIEt DIEt......
Totally semantics but I just WONT do it anymore. Healthy Choices, my new mantra. No more "falling off the wagon" "gotta get back on my diet" or "I'm starting a new diet tomorrow" or my Dad's fav "Let me hurry up and eat this so I can get back on my diet" or or or or or .....................
My goal is live healthy and be healthy. It is an everyday job.
Just when the Catipillar thought the world was over
....She became a Butterfly
300+ /260/ 140 Current BMI 22.4 /No Longer a #, just were my body is Happy
Highest Weight/ at surgery/ current /Goal
on 1/19/10 2:24 am
So what's your definition of NOT dieting?
1. A food regimen designed to maintain weight at a stable level without changing eating habits.
2. Having as many calories as desired whenever they are desired
a. eating high-calorie foods without regard to their nutritional content but offer health and stable weight
b. food choices that are sweetened, carb-heavy, high-fat but do not cause weight gain
Everyone has to make food choices that improve their health and stabilize their weight--even DSers, even non-ops, even always-thin people. NO one eats everything they want whenever they want it. We only have to diet to try to correct food mistakes we made in the past. I agree dieting is almost never successful.
That said, I think it's harder to be among the formerly fat...learning to make healthy food choices when your taste buds crave sugar, when you metabolism craves carbohydrates, and your intense hunger level craves mass quantities.
I don't have an answer to finding that perfect balance of enjoying just the right amount of healthy food with just the right amount of calories, but I don't think anyone else does either.
Being fat taught me that it wasn't all my fault. Being thin taught me that there aren't any guarantees I won't go back unless I do whatever I can to stop it. I think of it as healthy food choices, not dieting. That's just a mental trick, though. It's impossible to be perfect, I can just do the best I can.
–noun
1. | food and drink considered in terms of its qualities, composition, and its effects on health: |
For me this year I plan to add more fruits and vegetables to have a more balanced "diet." With that in mind YES I ran out and bought "new" products. When I went grocery shopping I bought small apples to eat with my string cheese, grapefruit and oranges to eat with my iron instead of just Vit C pills, honey dew, celery, radishes, broccoli, cabbage and some greek yogurt to make a dip for those vegetables, as well as a vegetable soup that I then blended cause I had this soup at Open Sesame that was pureed and was delish (I never did pureed stuff during my soft phase so this was a treat).
My diet is about molding a healthy "diet" ie food regime that works for me and my body to maintain my optimal health and satisfaction.