OT: Im going to be single again!

I think we talk ourselves out of trusting our gut instincts far too often.  I know that was the case with me, and I went nuts for months before it all came out in the open.  Lesson learned.  I don't mess around.  Of course now I am married and I completely trust my husband.  I got a GREAT one.  There is no time that is unaccounted for, no money being spent that he doesn't tell me about and is always where he says he will be.  I can check his computer at any time, and his phone (and I have) and I don't find things that aren't supposed to be there.  I think a good, honest guy, understands that women have a right to be concerned, and should be open about things.  If they are super protective or defensive of their privacy, they usually have something to hide.  That said, there is a limit to how long and how much you should be suspicious.  I think we gotta let our men earn our trust, and have our trust until they break it. I believe you are a lovely woman and deserve to be treated as the ONLY woman worth having!

Hello Meleny, It's a shame that most men can't ever seem to be satisfied with what they have and allways wan't their cake and eat it too. I wish that God made them more sensitive to what that does to a relationship. Trust your gut and do what you got to do. You don't deserve to be sencond fiddle to No man. I think that with most men unfortunatly that it's the weight of their testicles that pulls on their brain stems and makes them STUPID. I too have been pooped on to many times with lies, cheating ect. Kudo's to you ladies whom have good men. Give them an extra hug and hold them in your hearts as they are few. Good Luck. Michele

Meleney, It sounds like your instincts are telling you something is not right about this guy. Listen to your instincts! That's why we have them. You deserve much better. Don't put up with a liar and a cheat. If it is meant to be, someone special will come your way someday. Connie

You know the answer, but here goes anyway,  get rid of the Zero, & get yourself a Hero.  He has proven he can't be trusted.