Libido?? skinny vs fat sex! :)
Ok, I had to laugh and respond to some of the replies and tangents to your post. But now for my reply to your question and comments:
My husband and I used to have a great/amazing sex life. In many ways we still do, but I have to grit my teeth, leave the lights on and let him put his hands all over my fat, because that is what he wants to do. I release my body to him in love, although with shame, and he loves me more for it.
However, skinny sex is going to be WAAAY better, and I convinced him to pay for my surgery simply by taking him into Fredericks and showing him all the cutsie cut outs and barely there pieces I want to wear for him with lights on and role playing.
Needless to say, the surgery was paid for within 3 months and now he's 900 miles away working while I focus on this new life with a pouch and getting hornier every day ....
I can't wait for summer... YUM
Second comment: Attention from other men. Yes, you'll get it. How you react to it is up to you. While I was attending college in 2005/2006 I got a lot of attention from a certain champion wrestler at our university. He saw me as sexy because I have what he considers "sexy aura" and I carry myself with confidence. To this day, and I am now married--- this wrestler will email me and beg me to see him. He's now a professional ultimate fighter. I find it flattering, but truly only want the attention of my husband. I want my husband to drool and I'm looking forward to the day when I can't keep his hands off me.
Smiles,'
Jen
Luckily my husband is rather talented in this area so everytime is pretty good, it's just that I don't want it anywhere near as often as he does because I am always SO DAMNED TIRED! My hubby is 6'5" and only weighs 175lbs so his belly isn't the issue. He doesn't ALWAYS want to be on top, but I have a hard time since I have very limited stamina. Does anyone else get hip cramps when they are on top?
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