Secret Pal????

I have headed up SP and it became a nightmare for me.  The only reason was that a few did not do as they should.  I would do it differently now, but I simply do not have time to do it.  It is a little time consuming....not too much, but you do have to take time to do it.  Yes, it is a tool to have and make friends.  I had one on the main SP board my first time from PA.  She and I talked even after she moved to Tampa, FL.   She became a lifelong friend.   I do so much agree with you...if someone is not committed, they should not sign up.