Prayers
My cousin in Andalusia had her lap band surgery today. Her name is Sandy Neal and she came through it with flying colors. Her husband had the RNY not long ago, so we are truly a WLS family! I would like you to keep her in your prayers that she would continue to do well.
I would also ask that you keep me in your prayers because my ex-boyfriend/stalker is still calling me, still driving by my house and today he called my next door neighbor acting all nice and friendly trying to pump her for information about me. He even asked her if my parents had died because he noticed I had a new car and thought I might've come into some money...like I couldn't have gotten a new car unless my parents had passed away.
One of the reasons we broke up back in March was because he made the comment that my Daddy had hospice people coming to see him, but "that damned man ain't ever gonna die." My Daddy is so precious and I love him so much and for someone to say that about him...horrible. Anyway, this man is crazy, his son is on disability for rage issues and he just used me for money and he was angry because my Daddy was on hospice and wouldn't die so he could get some of his money. It has been a nightmare. I just want it to be over. He was violent with me and even though he hasn't come over here, he calls me at 1:30AM and calls about 10 times leaving messages (I don't answer the phone, but I have Caller ID and voice mail.)
When I had my WLS, they didn't cut out the mindset that I was somehow flawed because of my weight, so I ended up back in an abusive relationship because I didn't think I deserved any better and then he pulled this power trip, always cooking for me, trying to get me to eat and telling me, "You don't like my cooking or you would eat my food. You don't love me or you would eat this cake I baked just for you. You're upsetting my son because you won't eat." So...to keep the peace, I would eat and then I gained 50 lbs. back and then he was all, "You're so fat! My son keeps telling me Daddy you need to stop feeding her so much because she's so fat and I tell her I know son, she's really repulsive looking," on and on and on. So I finally got out of the nightmare, but he won't leave me alone.
If I call the police on him, they won't do anything, plus it will just make him madder and his son is on disability for rage issues and walks around with a loaded shotgun, so all I can do is put up with it. I will not answer the phone and if he comes to my door, I will call the police, but if anyone feels like praying for a release of this madness, I would appreciate it. Enough is enough.
Anyway, thanks for listening!
Love,
Joni
I would also ask that you keep me in your prayers because my ex-boyfriend/stalker is still calling me, still driving by my house and today he called my next door neighbor acting all nice and friendly trying to pump her for information about me. He even asked her if my parents had died because he noticed I had a new car and thought I might've come into some money...like I couldn't have gotten a new car unless my parents had passed away.
One of the reasons we broke up back in March was because he made the comment that my Daddy had hospice people coming to see him, but "that damned man ain't ever gonna die." My Daddy is so precious and I love him so much and for someone to say that about him...horrible. Anyway, this man is crazy, his son is on disability for rage issues and he just used me for money and he was angry because my Daddy was on hospice and wouldn't die so he could get some of his money. It has been a nightmare. I just want it to be over. He was violent with me and even though he hasn't come over here, he calls me at 1:30AM and calls about 10 times leaving messages (I don't answer the phone, but I have Caller ID and voice mail.) When I had my WLS, they didn't cut out the mindset that I was somehow flawed because of my weight, so I ended up back in an abusive relationship because I didn't think I deserved any better and then he pulled this power trip, always cooking for me, trying to get me to eat and telling me, "You don't like my cooking or you would eat my food. You don't love me or you would eat this cake I baked just for you. You're upsetting my son because you won't eat." So...to keep the peace, I would eat and then I gained 50 lbs. back and then he was all, "You're so fat! My son keeps telling me Daddy you need to stop feeding her so much because she's so fat and I tell her I know son, she's really repulsive looking," on and on and on. So I finally got out of the nightmare, but he won't leave me alone.
If I call the police on him, they won't do anything, plus it will just make him madder and his son is on disability for rage issues and walks around with a loaded shotgun, so all I can do is put up with it. I will not answer the phone and if he comes to my door, I will call the police, but if anyone feels like praying for a release of this madness, I would appreciate it. Enough is enough.
Anyway, thanks for listening!
Love,
Joni
Hi Joni,
Your cousin Sandy and her DH are in my prayers for a smooth recovery. You are in my thoughts and prayer..a person stalking you is a very scarey thing and dangerous. Please becareful!!
Your cousin Sandy and her DH are in my prayers for a smooth recovery. You are in my thoughts and prayer..a person stalking you is a very scarey thing and dangerous. Please becareful!!
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on 11/17/08 1:14 pm - Slapout, AL
on 11/17/08 1:14 pm - Slapout, AL
you and carolynfromhuntsville have a lot in common. well maybe not. you sound like you actual have a stalker. she on the other hand wishes she had one.
(((Joni)))
I am praying for your cousin and her husband how exciting for both of them to go on this wonderful journey together!!
I am also saying a prayer for you! WOW!!! I cannot imagine how terrified you must be.
Please be careful - this is such a dangerous situation. After 8 months and he's still around He needs help. I wish and pray the police find him some professionals to help him deal with his issues. Make sure you take precautions to protect yourself.
So glad to see you out of lurk mode and posting again!
I've missed ya!
I am praying for your cousin and her husband how exciting for both of them to go on this wonderful journey together!!
I am also saying a prayer for you! WOW!!! I cannot imagine how terrified you must be.
Please be careful - this is such a dangerous situation. After 8 months and he's still around He needs help. I wish and pray the police find him some professionals to help him deal with his issues. Make sure you take precautions to protect yourself.
So glad to see you out of lurk mode and posting again!
I've missed ya!
"DON'T WORRY ABOUT TOMMORROW, GOD IS ALREADY THERE!"
JULIE 
Certified OH Support Group Leader - Weigh Down (Baldwin County)
RNY 1/17/06
My cousin's husband has already been on his journey so he can lead her on hers. :)
I doubt the police will do anything since this is a small town, but I'm taking lots of precautions and the neighbors are all watching out.
Nice to be missed. :) I've missed everyone too. I keep trying to get back here and seems like every time I try to get back, the phone rings or the doorbell rings or something else drags me away from the computer.
Hugs,
Joni
I doubt the police will do anything since this is a small town, but I'm taking lots of precautions and the neighbors are all watching out.
Nice to be missed. :) I've missed everyone too. I keep trying to get back here and seems like every time I try to get back, the phone rings or the doorbell rings or something else drags me away from the computer.
Hugs,
Joni
Hey there Joni!!! I will be praying for your cousins. Make sure that you report these activities to the police. They may not do anything, but file a report. They have to let you do that. Keep copies of the reports. You need to do that. I will be praying that this man goes away and leaves you alone. It sounds like he has serious problems. Love ya!!
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