Getting Nervous

I am starting to get nervous, and thinking about not going through with the surgery. So many problems have come up in my life that I don't know if I can go through with it. I want too, and I know I need too, but I am getting really scared and not having my fiance get along with my family isn't going to make it easy on me. My family are morons, and my bf can be a jerk so there is going to be a lot of bumping heads and I am going to be stuck in the middle and I dont know if I can handle that kinda pressure. PLEASE HELP! I could really use some advice. My surgery is 8 days away.

Leann, You have to worry about YOU! Your health and well-being is what you need to be concerned about. You may have to sit your family and fiance down and just tell them your feelings and basically just the way it is going to be. Maybe they don't realize what this is doing to you plus adding to your tension over the surgery. If they love you and concerned about your health and want what is best for you, then they will lay their differences aside and learn to tolerate each other. This is just my opinion. We all have our family differences, we just smile and fake that we all like each other.

I agree with Shannon and Janet... you have to do this for YOU. My husband is very supportive but I havent even told my mother or my in laws because I knew they would be jerks about this. Im going through this process because its something Im doing for MYSELF. No one else lives in my skin but me. Only I will benefit. Only YOU will benefit and youre all that counts! Jen

Thanks guys really appreciate it! Sorry it took so long to reply like I said before I don't have internet at my house anymore due to financial problems. Only 3 days left my nerves are going every which way but other than that everything else has calmed down.