I am so fricken mad,

I have or had 3weeks til my surgery date and I get a call from the Bariatric center that they recieved a note from Dr Groh that he wants me to go through the Life skill training  before I can have surgery also have to have another visit with him. I just can't believe this. First he tells me that he recommends it to me and that I could start it and finish after surgery, now I can't have the surgery til I go thru this, all I could do is cry, still having a hard time trying to comes to terms with it. 3 weeks! to go
I do intend on staying on my preop diet, but I also intend on calling Dr groh tomorrow to find out exactly why he change this on me now. Has anyone else gone thru this with him....

I think that is best. Instead of asking him why he changed his mind I would suggest that you tell him you would prefer to keep to the schedule he originally set for you (with you finishing the program after surgery). Let him know that you started setting things in motion for a surgery date in 3 weeks and if it all possible you would prefer not having to change things.

Maybe this will jog his memory and he will go with his original plan. Best of luck!!

Thanks Jamille but I did try that and it was no use, he feels that I don't know enough about the surgery so all I can do is suck it up  and carry on. I was just so upset when I first got the news.I am feeling better now.

He just flat failed me on my psch eval ~~ I did go to the life skills class it was good.  just play the game ~~ I think it has something to do with insurance personally ~~ you know jack up the bill.