I'm staying
I'm glad you're staying!!!
Just cause some folks (not naming names) think we're middled aged whiners, doesn't make it so!!!! My doc encourages post surgery support, as do most docs (- esp. Dr. W's office, I've heard - Meow!!!!) For me, this site helps provide some peer support whether I'm having a good OR a bad day.
Again, glad to see you are staying!!!