I want everyone 2 know.....PLEASE READ!!!!!!!!
I appreciate your thoughts. I still feel creeped-out about this. This person lives very close to me (city over) and I am sure if this person wanted to find me, the person can. My hubby has my dog on alert, we are going to get our yard wired for intruders. I am violated and he wants me to feel protected. I am hoping that I can get thru this, once I get well, I am going to therapy. So ladies and Gentleman, Please be very weary for a person asking you questions and being very concerned after your surgery, I think too concerned. Then a concerned person ask for your last name and you give it to him/her, because you think you are making a new friend. Then this concerned person , tells you that they have to be honest with you and called your surgery hospital and told them lies. Please be weary.
I was asked about this call, yesterday at my 2 week postop appt. OMG I was so embarressed and I elxplained. They are concerned about this too. Once of the nurses even mentioned that "I shouldnt post my health conditions on OH because this person might take liberites again. " So I am taking all this in concern and Im going to make my decision very soon. I like OH, but I dont want to feel like anything I say or post will be told to my hospital...especially if it is inaccurate.
I am not going to the Auburn Support group today... I would like to, yet my hubby went to work and told me, that it might not be good to go right now. I brought on Amazon "WeightLoss for Surgery for Dummies" book. It arrived today. I will be reading it and helping myself.
OH I love my book "weight loss surgery for Dummies! It's like a bible!
I am so sorry about what happened. I agree this is way over stepping the boundaries!! Especially when calling the hospital. I think that would be in violation of HIPPA law if the hospital discussed your case with the person that called. I work for Group Health and I know about HIPPA law.
I would hate to see you leave OH. But do what you think is right for you and your private life. I can kind of understand what you are going through altho my situation was different, back in 2005 I was on Weigh****chers and I posted on their message boards and my supervisor saw my thread about candy bowl and she posted on it so that was in violation of my private personal life! My boss thought it was all about her which it never was! UGH!
ANyway, take care and be well!
PIXS!
I am hoping to stay on OH. The reason I made a decision to speak on this, is because I made a decision a while ago, that I will not be a victim or at least speak on how people do me wrong, so other people can learn from my issues. I dont want other people to feel violated and used. I dont have bad intentions for the person , that did it to me. I just hope this person learns from this and doesnt do it again.
(((Hugs girlie))) Hope we continue seeing you around in one form or another!