Candace N.’s Posts

Candace N.
on 10/15/24 7:56 pm
Topic: RE: Seeking updated food intake info--VSG 17 yrs ago

Sounds like an option! I appreciate your feedback!

Candace N.
on 10/11/24 5:34 pm
Topic: RE: Seeking updated food intake info--VSG 17 yrs ago

My sleeve was 17 yrs ago. Once again, I want to get back on track with healthier eating. Is there a particular website, or app where I can easily remember or relearn how much of what types of foods and drinks to take in and maybe a way to keep track of them? Thank you.

Candace N.
on 3/28/22 10:41 am
Topic: RE: 15 yrs post op

Oh, thank you very much!! I had not logged into OH in 10 yrs, so definitely need direction here as well! ð?'?

Candace N.
on 3/27/22 10:38 pm
Topic: RE: 15 yrs post op

May 2022 makes 15 yrs post op for me. I haven't lost all that I wanted to, but I gained a lot recently while taking a new medication. I'm looking for current guidelines for eating. My surgeon is deceased. I now have a Medicare plan which doesn't cover a nutritionist. Feel a little lost and uninformed as to what are present day guidelines and preferable food and drinks. Would appreciate if someone can show me a (re)starting point or offer suggestions for nowaday guidelines.

Candace N.
on 5/16/11 2:00 pm
Topic: RE: Fiber supplement?

Thank you also for your response.  I think this Metamucil is going out the window!  I'll look at Fiber Choice and I've also seen some fiber gummies recently so I'll look at that again, too.  Thank you so much ladies!

Candace N.
on 5/16/11 1:32 pm, edited 5/16/11 1:33 pm
Topic: RE: Fiber supplement?
Hi!  I appreciate your responses!  I originally lost 93 lbs in my first yr, then eventually gained back 31 lbs.  I've been pretty stable with my weight for this last yr, which I am really happy about.  I was still far from my goal at 93 lbs lost, so now I'm even further.  I think my pouch still works.  My head overrides it a lot, but it can override only so much!  If I get in a good emotional and stable place (like psych hospital, lol) I can and have gotten back to the way I'm suppose to be eating and lose weight.  I still have the tools to lose weight, I'm just not using them.  Guess I'm a stubborn learner.
Candace N.
on 5/16/11 1:02 pm
Topic: RE: Fiber supplement?
Hi!  I haven't been here to my profile in about 2 yrs.  I had the sleeve done 4 yrs ago.  I haven't followed my eating plan, nor do I remember what it is.  My fam doc recently told me to take Metamucil twice a day.  I'm not sure, but I thought I was told by my surgeon not to take in a lot of fiber and surely not like Metamucil.  Idk.  Anyone know what the deal is with that?  I can't say that I've had that much success since I've started using the Metamucil.  What's the ruling on taking in fiber?  Tks!






Candace N.
on 12/7/08 10:32 pm
Topic: RE: Yeah, I'm RE-starting!


Thanks all u guys!  It wud be hard to do w/o ya!!!!


Candace






Candace N.
on 12/7/08 11:00 am
Topic: RE: abbreviations
Ohhhhh, is it "NUTRITIONIST"???     Duhhh?


Candace






Candace N.
on 12/7/08 10:58 am
Topic: RE: abbreviations

Hi neighbor!  Prairieville, LA here!       Yeh, i'm kinda with ya on those abbreviations and i've joined this over a yr ago, but haven't been consistent online.

I do have a question for people.  Who is my "NUT"?  Is that the doc or dietician or what?  And is that a "good" term or not?  And where did it come from? 

Oh, Kris, i know the most popular (i think).  Don't know if u know these or not.

WLS= Weight Loss Surgery
VSG= Vertical Sleeve Gastrectomy


Candace (real name)
 






Candace N.
on 12/7/08 10:50 am
Topic: RE: Yeah, I'm RE-starting!
In short, i've lost a lot of weight, then recently gained 20 lbs. back.  So i'm announcing that i'm RE-starting.  I'm doing the 5 day pouch test (plan) someone suggested.  Today was my first day.   Mmmmm LIQUIDS, basically.  Yes, i'm hungry, but i'll be okay.  Gonna have me some cream of chicken soup soon.  WooHoooo!  I'm just happy that i get another chance to re-start!            

                     








Candace N.
on 12/4/08 10:28 am
Topic: RE: So overwhelmed, hard to communicate

Thank you for responding.  I read ur post this a.m. before leaving out the door, and i was crying.  Thank u for ur understanding and kind words.  Yes, actually i am into angels to some extent.  I have a collection of The Willow Tree angels.  Have u ever seen them?!  I have angels in this and that that i own.  I even have an angel tattoo!

Off topic for me too, I'm into angels, roses, tattoos, the Jesus fish (of course God), and i'm one heck of an LSU fanatic!

Thanks for ur support!  


Candace (real name)
 






Candace N.
on 12/4/08 10:20 am
Topic: RE: So overwhelmed, hard to communicate
OK.  tks for the info and thanks for responding and being there.  i appreciate it! 


Candace (real name)






Candace N.
on 12/3/08 1:23 pm
Topic: RE: Anyone feeling Like I am before surgery
WOW!  I don't  think u r overreacting at all.  I, personally, love to see the way u r handling this.  Two days before Christmas is kinda yuck, but i KNOW i wud choose that day as opposed to waiting until a later date.  U may not feel ur best, but in a way this Christmas will be VERY special and one u won't forget.  I think u r right.  This IS a major surgery and major change in ur life.  More power to ya, girl!  I'm totally impressed with ur views and priorties and it sounds like u r doing the best thing to me; TAKING CARE OF BUSINESS!   GOOD JOB!  I SAY GO FOR IT AND CONTINUE WITH THE HARD WORK.  Again, i'm very impressed and excited about ur attitude.  Good luck!



Candace (real name)






Candace N.
on 12/3/08 1:10 pm
Topic: RE: So overwhelmed, hard to communicate
Thank you so much for responding.  I find your words comforting, and u seem quite understanding.  I appreciate ur help and support!  tks again!

Candace (real name)






Candace N.
on 12/3/08 1:07 pm
Topic: RE: So overwhelmed, hard to communicate
Thank u for ur response.  Unfortunately, taking care of the needs and behaviors of our special needs son is usually first on our list.  It's overwhelming for me and my husband, but we just continue to carry on in a "survival mode".

I do like the idea of enjoying life and not just "doing" life.  Gives me something to think about and a possible goal.

tks again for ur input!\

Candace (real name)






Candace N.
on 12/3/08 1:02 pm
Topic: RE: So overwhelmed, hard to communicate
Oh, thank you so much!  Thanks for the prayers, too.  I believe in prayer.  Love the 5 day pouch test idea!  I hadn't heard of that before.  It looks very do-able.  If i can commit to these 5 days and just concentrate on that then, then i can really imagine a good possibility of being back on track.

Yes, i get re-imbursed by Dept. of Dev. Dis. for respite, but having a hard time finding and keeping a capable and acceptable worker.  I do need to excercise.  I like being outside, so probably need to see more of that.

Again, thank u so much!  I appreciate it!  :)

Candace (FYI:  screen name "Kahne" but wud like to change to my real name, don't know if possible)






Candace N.
on 12/3/08 12:43 pm
Topic: RE: Foot pain, joint pain, sleep apnea, always tired is there any hope?
OMG!  YES, DEFINITELY!  Things got alot better for me.  I also injured my knee yrs. ago and then started putting on weight.  Yes, had joint pain in a lot of places, got tired out just taking a shower, and had to rest after.  Got tired out walking to the end of our hall in our small house, had high BP and was on med. for it, was on CPAP machine, back hurt constantly, and feet.  After losing my first 20 lbs. which just took i think about 2 weeks (it's been a while since surgery), every problem i had physically was remarkedbly better!  Now no CPAP, no high BP nor med for it, feet stop hurting, things became a breeze to do, moved around better, moved faster.  Life became a lot easier and therefore i was a lot happier.  I still have back pains, but if i stay stretched (like doing Pilates) i have no problem at all with my back, and i even have/had (?) a herniated lower disc.    Oh yes, yes, things got so much better.  I'm excited for you to experience hopefully the same things i have experienced!  I wish u the best of luck!  Got a surgery date yet?

Candace (but posted screen name is "Kahne"-- i wud like to change it to my real name, oh well)






Candace N.
on 12/3/08 12:16 pm
Topic: RE: So overwhelmed, hard to communicate
Can u read my last blog?  I need help.  Just don't know what to do anymore.  Don't know what to say anymore or to who.  I'm 1 1/2 yrs. post-op, lost 93 lbs. in first yr. then gained about 25 since.  I don't feel like i have a life anymore (pls see blog).  I almost feel like it is a waste to talk about this or reach out for help.  I am in psychotherapy once week (for the last 18 yrs.), I'm on anti-depressants, anti-anxieties, and anti-psychotics.  I have a psychiatrist.  I am having trouble getting in contact with my nutritionist.  On any given day if I'm away from the stresses of my life, i can be full (actually "register" it) within a few bites of food.  I was in a psych. hospital in July and did just fine with my eating AND lost weight within 5 days bec i was able to work on myself and was away from family-type stress.  Just don't know what to do anymore.  Suggestions??

tks






Candace N.
on 5/5/08 10:24 am
Topic: RE: Am I crashing? I need help pls!
  Thanks you all.  Y'all have been just wonderfully supportive of me.  Don't know what I'd do w/o y'all.  I appreciate each and every response!!!  Just an update on me:  Still have a lot of anxiety.  I see my therapist tmw and then today I've added a second appt. this week with him for Wed.  for extra help and support.  Have not called my psych. yet.  Really want a more deeper relationship with my husband of 13 yrs.  Talked to him about that today and we're going to try to work on that and I will also work in therapy on that.  Decided to weigh-in today.  It's been maybe a month or two or so since I had weighed in.  Believe it or not, I only gained THREE pounds although it feels like 20 lbs.  I also contacted the new (to me) dietician at my doc's office about going over the post-op diet again.  Made an appt. with the P.A. for Friday, but not sure if I will keep it or not.  when i can get a sitter, i will go back to support group.  Found out the dietician has a group sometimes, too and I plan to go there if at all possible.  Tried to stick with protein and water/Crystal Light today and I've done pretty good.  It's a difficult mind game!  Again, thanks to EVERYONE for ur support!  Y'all did great!!!  :)  I'm still going back and re-reading and considering what everyone has said.  I'm hanging in there!  Thanks u guys!






Candace N.
on 5/4/08 3:41 pm
Topic: RE: Serious stories on after care,risks of death
I didn't read the story.  I don't remember of hearing about leaks, but my memory is not very good.  I knew there were risks going into my surgery and that there hadn't been enough time for hardly any long term research.  I also knew where I presently was and what direction i was going into, and decided with my husband that I wud take that chance.  I was already taking a chance every day with my high blood pressure, sleep apnea, etc.  Just my personal experience:  I didn't have any complications.  The normal bad gas pains in the beginning and hurting or being sore from a surgery, but everything has gone just fine for me.  Just putting in my 2 cents.  Pain-wise, I'd rather have another VSG before getting my tonsils out again.  My child was 8 yrs. old when i had the surgery so i didn't have any issues with having to pick him up.






Candace N.
on 5/4/08 3:17 pm
Topic: RE: CPAP Freedom??
Less than a month.  Actually, I really think it was about a week.  I think I lost 20 lbs. in my first week or two and I took myself off of it, and have done fine ever since.  That was about 11 months ago.  I was on the CPAP for some weeks or months before surgery.  That was my last straw to make me even more ready to have surgery.  I hated that CPAP!  Wishing u the best of luck!






Candace N.
on 5/3/08 3:16 pm
Topic: RE: Am I crashing? I need help pls!
Hey!  I use to go to it when it was near Vista.  They had a "speaker" there one night who said all the wrong things, i got overwhelmed.  Found out later that the staff was NOT happy with him!!  And then i was still ticked off bec the nutritionist who was there when i had my surgery was misleading, unethical, confusing, said things opposite of what the doctor said, and she had issues of her own!  She has since left.  I felt betrayed by that stuff.  I had a LONG talk with Holly about these things some months ago.  She was very, very helpful, though I did not go back to the group.  Not blaming the group of course!  I was just tired of hearing conflicting "professional" advice and guidance from the same place.  I need to just get over that!  I do need group.  I know where u r talking about, though have not been to group since it moved there.  I do assume that's the same one from next to Vista, right??  Now my only, but big, obstacle will be finding a sitter for my son!  Group is until 7 pm?






Candace N.
on 5/3/08 3:01 pm
Topic: RE: Am I crashing? I need help pls!
Yes, that's what i think is really going on for the most part.  And i just can't seem to shake it and i'm still adjusting into this "new" person that I'll become bec of these life-changing events.  WOW!  One of your statements REALLY hit me!  And then i had to read it again, and again for it to continue to sink in.  Your WOW statement for me:  "My concern is that you've given up taking care of yourself in order to deal with those changes."  It's still has not fully sunk in, but u really got my attention with it!  Tks!






Candace N.
on 5/3/08 2:10 pm
Topic: RE: Am I crashing? I need help pls!
Sorry, one more thing.  Recently I got impetigo, a very contagious staph infection on my face.  I hated it!  Got on an oral antibiotic and a topical one.  Didn't find out until I was on the oral anitbiotic for 3 days that that particular med. affects the metabolism of most of my psych. meds.  So it was like me missing 6 full doses of psych meds in a row.  i was a basketcase!  I was suicidal.  Called crisis intervention line and only one counselor working and she was on the other line helping someone else.  Called back 20 min. later and got this 24 hr. cr. interv. line's voicemail.  I was thinking "WHAT??!!!!  IS THIS REALLY POSSIBLE??!"  Made it alive thru that night.  Both my therapist and psychiatrist worked me into their schedule the following day bec i was doing so poorly and suicidal.  They BOTH worked me in for the EXACT SAME TIME!!  I was thinking, "WHAT??!!!  IS THIS REALLY POSSIBLE??!!"  I was at the end of my rope and I had to make a decision if I shud see my psych or therapist, and THEN i was charged for BOTH appts. and of course cud only make one of them!!  bec i had been so sick that week, i didn't notice that my son ran out of one of his psych meds and therefore his behavior became practically intolerable.  I also realized i cudn't depend on my husband as a back up for taking care of my son.  Bec of the lack of my psych meds, and reactions to the oral antibiotic, I was walking around crying, i wud walk and suddenly whimper and cry, i wud twitch, my leg wud swing out, and my arm, i was rolling all over in my bed, banging on stuff, hanging upside down from laying in my bed.  I was not even in control of my own body for about a week, and i was still crying.  And my son was crying and throwing tantrums, and me too.  My son and i were pathetically laying on the bed next to each other sobbing.  My husband doesn't know how to handle this and says, "What's wrong with y'all?!  I just want to get the f--- out of here!"  So my son and I continue to cry at that statement.  my husband slams the pantry door shut.  My son thought he left us and kept saying, "Daddy's angry and left!" as he continues to cry.  And I'm sobbing holding my son saying, "it's okay, babie.  Daddy's just angry right now,  It's okay."  And i continue to cry, too.  Oh yeh, and my therapist was going to be out for 3 days for the Easter weekend, and though rare, he was not going to be available even for emergencies.  That was happening at this same time, too.  AND also, my psych and his nurse were going to be out the whole week after Easter, which is when ALLLLL of this happened.  Oh yeh, and that same week that i was so sick with everything, oh, including the antibiiotic giving me a rash and upsetting my stomach, i didn't realize for a little while that i was constipated, then i got hemorhoids, and then my period started, and i was having chills and sweats, but no fever.  I could NOT believe that all of this was possible to go on at the same time!! I then realized at a NEW LEVEL that I cud absolutely count on NO ONE for sure on earth.  Then i once again remembered God.  My belief in God is the only reason I'm alive right now.  The hardest hit was seeing that my husband cudn't handle very well me and my son if i got mentally ill, etc. again.  That was one of my new realizations.  I felt like I hit rock bottom.  Though GOOD that i remembered God again, it felt like i hit bottom and that i can't totally rely on anyone in this world, just bec that's the way things are.  We are human.  It felt like another SLAP IN THE FACE!!!  I cudn't believe all those cir****tances failed me!!!  So that was another life changing event recently that i'm still trying to deal with my feelings about it!






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