there are people on here who've lost quite a bit of weight with VSG...like 100 lbs or more. Statistics indicate that people lose more with RNY (GB), but not by much - maybe 5% more. But that's just on average. Individuals vary pretty widely - mostly depending on their level of compliance. You can be very successful - or not - with either surgery. But at any rate, even if you go by the statistics, the average is a lot more than 20-30 lbs.

there are certain health issues that make one surgery more appropriate than the other. For example, I had GERD prior to surgery, so the surgeon recommended I go with RNY (although he would have done either). I went with his recommendation and have been very happy with my RNY.

I'm not sure if PCOS or Hashimoto's would be considered one of those "certain health issues" that would make one surgery more appropriate than the other, though. If they are, I'd at least consider what they're recommending. But if not, it really comes down to personal preference (well, it does in any event, really - my surgeon would have done VSG if I'd insisted on it)

I'm 5'4 and starting weight was near 280. I had vsg and lost over 20lbs in my first month. I had to have vsg because I have a blood clotting disorder called factor 5 leiden and I'm on blood thinner. I was afraid I wouldn't qualify for surgery, but am so happy I had vsg! I would suggest making a written list of questions and statements about you wanting vsg. Your input is taken into consideration, don't shy away from addressing your concerns.

Hi Ladies!

Surgery in 2014 - did amazing for a long time. Weight has crept up about 20 lbs. I need to get back down to my happy weight. It's hard being home and life as it is now. I only wear sports bra, sweats and t-shirts - way too comfortable. Also grazing is a problem. Hoping to find some motivation.

Psren, you have been through alot! Wishing you the best getting back on track.

Trust me some of us have been here for over 10 years and we have seen a lot of things.

Maybe there is something else that they both like to do that doesn't involve food. Movies, mini golf, just a walk, that they can do for their date night instead.

My husband has always been supportive of me and it was him in 2003 who suggested I look into WLS. He just wanted me to be healthy and active. Now the tides have turned and he got a back injury 3 years ago. He was depressed and gained weight which didn't help his back. He had tried on and off for the last few years to lose the weight and just recently came across a Dr. on youtube who is a holistic doctor from Sweden. The way the doctor talks about things and explains things peaked my husbands interest. It really motivated him to lose the weight, get off his sugar meds, and be more active. So I have been right there encouraging him and helping him in any way I can.

I think communication in a relationship is the key. I hope things work out for them.

White Dove, it's strange to think that my son in law may be thinking she will be attractive to someone else, but then we don't understand the psychology of others, so I'll just get the book and ask her to consider reading it, and to join this website and find some friends on this website. I found the second edition of the book online for about $10.

I know she had a psychological evaluation prior to surgery, but it doesn't seem like there are enough warnings as to the great changes in the relationship that can occur. Theirs might not be major yet, but if they don't communicate clearly and honestly, I can tell it could get to that point, and with two children in the mix.

This is good insight for me, don't forget to communicate, even without surgery!