Suggestions please!

When I was working I was going to tell them that I needed time for a private surgery My husband was going to as Well. Normally your human resources protects you and him from having to share anything.

If you want to share then go for it. As others said tell them you have a surgery in the abdomen area that limits moving, may make you feel I'll, lifting and requires assistance.

Good luck and I hope it goes well!

Penny

You're having an abdominal surgery "of a personal nature". They're usually afraid to push any farther than that.