Wanting to back out

I just have to say I am petrified. I?m a nurse, and I know too much. It?s a blessing and a curse. I have a family that needs me, and sometimes I feel so selfish that I?m taking this risk. I know the obesity can kill me, but I?m here now! Anyone else have these awful morbid thoughts before surgery? I just have this constant fear and apprehension at this point. Total basket case.

I'd say it's not uncommon. But, regardless of what you know, the disease of obesity is far more fatal than the surgery.

I know you're right.

I just had VSG surgery 9 days ago. I'm older than you and retired. I feel great! The surgery was a breeze and recovery has been easier than I thought. I've had more severe surgery. I want to see my grandchildren and enjoy retirement.. I wish I had done this years ago. No regrets.

You are having normal thoughts and concerns. But you're going to do great. Think about the reason for this surgery and the health benefits that come with it.

Best of luck!!

Carol

I needed this. Thank you. Glad you are doing well.

Surgery has given me a new lease on life. I had no fear of the surgery because I was physically a wreck....so much pain.

I would do it again in a heartbeat. My only regret was I didn't have the surgery sooner. If I had, there would not have been so much damage to my body.

I highly recommend you have the surgery now.

Thank you for sharing this. Very reassuring.

Shannon,

You are going to be FINE! You are in very good hands, know tons of people here that have been through the surgery and know what to expect. The complication rate is SUPER low. Your anxiety is completely normal but realize that's the byproduct of your brain worrying about what ifs that are not going to happen. Instead, try to focus on the surgery going smoothly, how well you are going to take care of yourself post-op and then how you are going to enjoy your life more than ever before after the surgery is behind you.

You've got this! There is nothing to be afraid of. Soon you are going to be one of the hundreds of people on here saying that having it done was the best decision you made. I can't wait to read that post from you!

Paige

This is very comforting. I try to keep things in perspective, and then the dark thoughts come. I've put this surgery off for 2 years because of fear. I appreciate your kind words.

Totally get it but you are going to do so well! This is the start of something really awesome!

Paige