Depression

Beau2101
on 5/9/17 5:47 pm
DS on 03/27/17

I am 5 weeks post surgery and have days when I really get depressed for no reason? Anyone else go through bouts of depression

Sparklekitty, Science-Loving Derby Hag
on 5/9/17 6:17 pm
RNY on 08/05/19

At 5 weeks out, it's possible that you're running into the notorious "hormone dump." Our bodies store hormones in fat cells, and when you lose a lot of weight very quickly, it all goes flooding into your system at once. For women it's like a killer spell of PMS, and from what I've heard from other men here, it can certainly leave you feeling out of sorts as well.

It's also entirely possible that the enormity of your lifestyle change is really hitting you right now. Lots of people here work with a therapist to addresses the changes surgery brings, and it can be hugely helpful.

Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!

Gwen M.
on 5/9/17 6:19 pm
VSG on 03/13/14

Ditto everything Julie said. And I highly recommend finding a therapist to work with.

VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)

Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170

TrendWeight | Food Blog (sort of functional) | Journal (down for maintenance)

CC C.
on 5/9/17 8:10 pm, edited 5/9/17 1:11 pm

I was definitely getting the blues around then. I'm sure hormones were involved, but mostly I missed my "friend" food, and I missed how easy eating was pre-surgery. It was a frequent topic of discussion with my therapist (I admit to crying a few times in her office over it) and I'm happy to say the feelings have passed (I'm 11 weeks now).

Beau2101
on 5/10/17 7:44 am
DS on 03/27/17

Sounds like how I feel about food. Thanks

CC C.
on 5/10/17 7:52 am

That's definitely therapist territory! Do you have one? Believe me, it helps.

Beau2101
on 5/10/17 7:57 am
DS on 03/27/17

No but I am getting one quickly

CC C.
on 5/10/17 7:58 am

Excellent!

Grim_Traveller
on 5/10/17 6:21 am
RNY on 08/21/12

What Julie said. Hang in there.

6'3" tall, male.

Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.

M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.

Stacy_WLS
on 5/10/17 7:17 am

Yes. You no longer have food which for most of us was a big thing in our life. PLus as you lose weight hormones are dumped into your system. This is a tough time.

Drink lots of water. Try to get fresh air. Take walks. Check out therapy. Stay connected with friends / family.

VSG: 12/12/13, LBL, small TL, BL/BA: 11/7/14 Twins 12/9/18 HW after Twins 260. 5'10 37 years old - Stacy_WLS (MFP)

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