Miscommunications

well,we called her in her **** and she got butt hurt and left. How is that our fault?

Yes, and now I know the full story.

Yeah, maybe if I had seen one iota of that kindness I could have believed her meanness was just a miscommunication.

This sort of post is drama central. I think you're bright enough to know exactly what your doing by saying it's us not understanding her. I think we get her, and now you, just fine.

Have a great evening.

Your response is brusque. Do you stick around to read other responses? Or just get that tart last word?

This is to direct you to my response to Holly Kim. I don't stir the **** pot. If I do, I shall lick the **** stick. This post is about kindness. Someone I like is gone. I don't condone the aforementioned actions. If you saw that when I didn't, I apologize and was not aware. I am still whole heartedly in full support of positive support of all members during their journey. And I won't condemn them when they make mistakes.

Timeline

Since I'm that "other person", I want to add that Soho not only mocked a friends sobriety, but poo pooed the fact that our friend thought the word "fat" had negative connotations. She then edited her original post, and apologized all over the place to our friend (who graciously accepted her apology), making our "calling out" of her bad behavior look out of place (a deliberate act). She then blocked us and went to an entirely different thread to gloat, saying, "I'm still enjoying being the "fat" girl". She showed us CLEARLY who she is.

Edited to add the link to the post Soho made on an unrelated thread.

Thank you, Rocky. No wonder I never saw this. I thought the sweet potatoe water post looked rediculous and never looked at it.

I'm sorry 3bassetts was a target of ugliness. I have congratulated her on her sobriety, when she announced her 11 months. It's very difficult to maintain sobriety. And doing that, to keep clear of carbs afterwards, so I know she is doubly strong.

I see A LOT of bullying behavior on these boards, but I never saw her do this first hand, and I am very sad to see this. Perhaps this has all been for the best.

so,by your own admission,you did not witness her being a ****but you felt OK to try to be the forum nanny because,obviously,we were being mean to her and caused her to deactivate,and we just didn't understand how sometimes ppl need someone to hold their hands?

is that bout right?

Not at all. I made a post about my feelings with people I talk to every day.

Somehow, people I don't talk to everyday found it necessary to post in something that wasn't directed at them.

I'm no nanny. Just a member with a heart, on a journey.