Losing my mind

b3th2882
on 11/11/15 8:57 am

I'm on day 4 of my pre-op liquid diet and I'm really struggling. I can have 3 shakes a day, sugar free jello, and broth, but I'm still going to bed hungry and waking up hungry. I'm having problems sleeping and have developed a lovely headache which makes my work day just fabulous!

Did anyone else feel like this? How did you get past it? I feel like I'm going to cry (or snap at everyone at work!!)

VSG Surgery date: 11/23/2015, 33yr F, HW: 278.2

        

Gwen M.
on 11/11/15 9:00 am
VSG on 03/13/14

The first 3-5 days are the worst.  Stay strong, think about your goal and how great surgery will be.  You can do it.  

VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)

Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170

TrendWeight | Food Blog (sort of functional) | Journal (down for maintenance)

psychoticparrot
on 11/11/15 9:12 am

The first few days of pre-op liquids are the hardest. Can you take anything for the headache -- Tylenol, etc.? I'm afraid you'll have to muscle through this. It's hard but necessary.

Try not to snap at others, but it's okay to cry and indulge in a bit of self-pity. It releases some of the tension. Just don't wallow in it!

BTW, there will be moments after the surgery when you'll feel the same way. Accepting that this will happen helps ease the moments when they arrive.

When I read posts like yours, I laugh at people who say bariatric surgery is "the easy way out."

 

psychoticparrot

 

  "Live for what today has to offer, not for what yesterday has taken away."

Grim_Traveller
on 11/11/15 9:34 am
RNY on 08/21/12

I think it's the easy way. Of course it's the easy way. But I'm ok with that.

6'3" tall, male.

Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.

M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.

stacy T.
on 11/11/15 9:26 am - San Francisco, CA

As Parrot said, this is not the easy way. It's the smart way and the final way. But itis tough. Hang in there. Find some other way to reward yourself. Get a mani, or flowers for your desk, somethinng to cheer yourself up and remind you that you are the hero in your own life.

b3th2882
on 11/11/15 9:52 am

That's a great idea, a little reward for getting through it. I know it's all worth it, and I'm going to stick through it no matter what. I'm just so emotional I'm sure everyone thinks I've lost it (and I think I may have lol).

 

Thanks everyone for the support and the reminder this isn't the easy way, but it is the best way!

VSG Surgery date: 11/23/2015, 33yr F, HW: 278.2

        

JoeyJo
on 11/11/15 10:16 am - NJ

I wear several charm bracelets, so I bought myself a new bracelet that is my reward / a visual reminder that I am awesome, because sometimes I forget.

Tracy D.
on 11/11/15 11:14 am - Papillion, NE
VSG on 05/24/13

Yes, you're going to wake up hungry and go to bed hungry.  You won't die from it but you'll probably get crabby.  

Repeat this over and over:  HUNGER IS NOT AN EMERGENCY! 

 Tracy  5'3"     HW: 235  SW: 218  CW: 132    M1: -22  M2: -13  M3: -12  M4: -9  M5: -8   M6: -10   M7: -4

 Goal reached in 7 months and 1 week

 Lower Body Lift w/Dr. Barnthouse 7-8-15

   

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

hollykim
on 11/11/15 12:04 pm - Nashville, TN
Revision on 03/18/15
On November 11, 2015 at 4:57 PM Pacific Time, b3th2882 wrote:

I'm on day 4 of my pre-op liquid diet and I'm really struggling. I can have 3 shakes a day, sugar free jello, and broth, but I'm still going to bed hungry and waking up hungry. I'm having problems sleeping and have developed a lovely headache which makes my work day just fabulous!

Did anyone else feel like this? How did you get past it? I feel like I'm going to cry (or snap at everyone at work!!)

jello and broth are essentially free items on preop. I would drink 4,5,6 cups of broth,one right behind the other as many times a day as I needed to stay a little ahead of the hunger.

i would make a larg box of jello and eat the whole bowl it made in one sitting if that is what was needed.  Drink all you can of these items plus your shakes.

doing is I also lost 12 # on my preop diet.

 


          

 

b3th2882
on 11/11/15 12:16 pm

See my pre-op diet says "broth if you need something extra", but I've been probably drinking 32oz a day and 2 sugar free jello cups

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