Post-opers, Do you have second thoughts or regrets?
Thanks everyone. I am doing all I can to find the right people. Not being originally from the area is a pain, but I know I will find them eventually. I was just feeling like I was the only one and that maybe how I was feeling stupid because it was made to feel so (not by my husband, of course).
I just hate how I feel, about myself and I hate that I regret the surgery because as far as health goes, it was a good decision.
I too have had moments of feeling sorry for myself. There is skin hanging from my arms, tummy and thighs. I have lady bits where they shouldn't be as well and I am pretty sure there will be plastics sometime in my future so it feels like I traded one bad thing for another. However - it is usually a few minutes of a day of negativity when the rest I am so grateful I have my tool. I am trying to embrace the badges of courage but my chest was always what I considered my best physical feature and now when I lay down I find myself looking for them - LOL!!! Thank you everyone for being so honest and making me realize I am not the only one...