Husband sleeping in bed with me

SassyAmy
on 8/11/15 7:49 pm
VSG on 08/05/15

How soon after surgery did your spouse come back to bed with you (assuming they left to give you room to stretch out)? I'm trying to convince my husband that, at a week out, he can come back to bed and I'll be fine, but he's worried he's going to roll over and accidentally jostle me or smack me in the stomach or something.

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Sleeved on August 5th, 2015 |  HW: 292 | SW: 275 | GW: 135

mandidel
on 8/11/15 8:42 pm, edited 8/12/15 8:36 am

How soon after surgery did your spouse come back to bed with you (assuming they left to give you room to stretch out)? I'm trying to convince my husband that, at a week out, he can come back to bed and I'll be fine, but he's worried he's going to roll over and accidentally jostle me or smack me in the stomach or something.

UPDATE: Hubby slept in bed with me last night and it was totally fine. Thanks for all of your answers!

    5'9"

    
(deactivated member)
on 8/11/15 8:42 pm

Mine never left our bed. I was fine and didn't worry about it. Let him know it's perfectly fine and that you'll just smack him back! LOL!

 

SATXVSG
on 8/11/15 1:43 pm, edited 8/11/15 1:44 pm - Selma(San Antonio), TX
VSG on 04/22/14

My wife slept with me night one and vice versa when she was sleeved.  Her surgery date was 4-22-15.

Surgery Date 04-22-14 HW 2011 388(lost 60lbs on WW, regained 40) Surgery Consult Weight 1/10/14 - 367 SW 357 - CW 9/15 210.

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poplargreys
on 8/11/15 8:46 pm
VSG on 03/31/15

I slept on the couch the first two nights home, then went back to bed. It was never the thought of getting jostled or cramped in bed as much as it was being able to prop myself up easier on the couch.

Gwen M.
on 8/12/15 4:54 am
VSG on 03/13/14

I slept alone in a recliner for two nights, then went back to bed with my partner. Never an issue. 

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