"OMG! You were FAT and.....
BALD???? Oh, God, that must have been just awful, especially being so short!"
Yes, those were words that were spoken to me just the other day. I guess I was a real triple threat! Sigh....
Funny thing is that the person who said it was no stranger to being overweight. Some people don't think, I guess. All I could do was smile. Clearly, the comment bugged me if I'm posting about it 2 days later! LOL!
I'm short and fat for now but not for long and I'm a woman I think bald men are sexy and always have idk why but that's just me whoever this person is their opinion doesn't define you and you should be proud of your weight loss success. Bald or not bald I think the person is probably jealous. Be strong be bold and don't allow other's opinion change your view of yourself.
Elia Maria Saenz
"Some people don't think" is an understatement. I am generally forgiving of clumsy attempts to put my weight loss into some sort of perspective. But, honestly, some of it is a bit traumatizing.
For me, the worst are those who can't put their thoughts it into words. So they puff out their cheeks and use arm and hand motions to show how big I was. In what world is that appropriate in any possible way? I have gotten better at turning away as they go thru their motions so I don't stare at them in horror.
I try not to think much about it, but have enjoyed this moment of ranting. Thanks!
HW:361 SW:304 (VSG 12/04/2014)Mo 1:-32 Mo 2:-13.5 Mo 3: -13.5 Mo 4 -9.5 Mo 5: -15 Mo 6: -15 Mo 7: -13.5 Mo 8: -17 Mo 9: -13 Mo 10: -12.5 11/3/2015 Healthy BMI Reached! Mo 11: -9 Mo 12: -8 12/27/2015 Goal Weight Reached!
I guess you will just have to settle for being short and hot now :)
Surgeon: Chengelis Surgery on 12/19/2011 A little less carb eating compared to my weight loss phase loose sleever here!
1Mo: -21 2Mo: -16 3Mo: -12 4MO - 13 5MO: -11 6MO: -10 7MO: -10.3 8MO: -6 Goal in 8 months 4 days!! 6' 2'' EWL 103% Starting size 28 or 4x (tight) now size 12 or large, shoe size 12 w to 10.5 150+ pounds lost
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