What do I say?
I have the same problem. People ask me how much more weight I want to lose and when I tell them they look at me like I have 2 heads. I usually reply with something along the lines of "Well, this is the weight goal given to me by my doctor." That usually shuts them up, lol.
Also, congrats on your success so far!!
I told people I only intended to reach the goal that the medical community considers a 'normal weight'...and that according to them, I'm still overweight....but be sure to thank them for the nice compliment.
Valerie
DS 2005
There is room on this earth for all of God's creatures..
next to the mashed potatoes
My doctor is keeping close tabs on me. Thanks for your concern.
They are not used to seeing you thinner. When you get to goal and stay there, comments like these stop.
Laura in Texas
53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)
RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis
brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco
"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."
I'd tell them I'm under my drs care, but thank - you for your concerns, then change the subject to something else. They're just not used to seeing you thin, they'll get used to it eventually.
No one surgery is better than the other, what works for one may not work for another. T-Rebel
Acknowledge their comment and change the subject. Every single time. Eventually people will get the hint.
VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)
Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170
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Every last one of us goes through this. The responses you got above are great. Just keep doing what you've been doing.
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.