Feeling dumped by my OH mentor (Vets any input is greatly appreciated)

I'm pretty sure she gave you what she could when she could but she seems to be struggling herself right now.  things morph and change.  she may feel the need to be alone for a minute.  You've done great and while you may miss a friend you may not need a mentor anymore.  I've noticed other vsg'ers have offered to friend you and that would probably benefit you at this time and as for ever feeling truly confident to reel ourselves in. I'm not sure but being so close to goal it's probably time to learn those coping skills.  I'm really sorry about your friend but you can do this.  You really can.