Need advice, Very Off Topic..Dealing with haters.

DaniellaRN
on 9/28/11 9:55 am - CA
 Why even bother go to the host's house if they make it clear they dont like you? Dont go, dont put yourself through the stress, you have plenty of other people in your life who love you and want you around. Just my opinion =)
                
KikiRox85
on 9/28/11 11:42 am - CA
Me personally wouldnt want there negativity ruining my night. If you want to kick some dirt up in the air... go but ask yourself if its worth the negativity that comes with it.
Some people our peices of **** Steer clear of them. You dont need them in your life.

  
Still Fawn
on 9/28/11 11:49 am, edited 9/28/11 11:49 am - SIERRA MADRE, CA
Is this the sat party? You should have just brought me with you- I always seem to attract the negative attention.. Viola.. Lol.. Seriously, I would say something to the parents about their behavior and their kids- it's completely unacceptable IMO. I wouldn't do it in the middle of a party though...

Or.. Just blow them off altogether and just come to the parx with me, my hubby, and a few other people! No hating, guaranteed!

 I am still loving life with my sleeve! Been maintaining at or below goal for over 4 years!
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SassyItalian
on 9/29/11 1:28 am - Basseterre, St. Kitts and Nevis
ha! yes this one of the parties, i also have a cousins going away party earlier in the day, being deployed to iraq..

maybe i will come meet up with you guys! i'll probably need a break. text me after the wedding and let me know when youre at parx

           
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DrHollywood
on 9/28/11 3:59 pm - Harbor City, CA
Girl,   be the gracious haaaawt sexy girl you are.  If you see them say hello and smile.
Girl  be that classy lady because that is who you are with confidence.  Forget about those
haters.  you just do your part and be nice. 

I know i know we want to get along with the ones that dont like us.  or NOT!  lol
Let us know how it turns out.  I applaud you for going and walking through this mess.

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maxie1
on 9/30/11 9:13 am - PA
RNY on 06/10/13

I would stay away, you don't need to be treated like that there are too many others that love to have you around.   go on a seperate date with the guy...

            susan

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