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on 7/8/11 7:53 pm
She may pick friends that she finds some 'fault' with to make her feel better about herself, and if you fix your 'fault', she'll lose that feeling.
If she's used to getting more attention than you at your place of employment, she may be afraid of losing some of it to you after you lose weight and feel better about yourself.
It could be anything really... but it's still sad to have a friendship in turmoil. No matter what, you aren't responsible for her attitutude or actions, and if living a healthier, happier, and potentially much longer life is the trade-off for her friendship, you'll be better off with supportive friends and letting her live with her choice.
I remember reading once that our circle of extended friends change about once every 7 years. Our interests evolve and change, and that seems to be what is happening here to a certain extent, perhaps?
Is your so called friend you share everything with at work, BIG?
Because if so, she is in fear of you getting healthy and jealous.
If she is not, That is no friend and you need to dump her. You just suround
yourself with people who will support you and make other WLS friends.
Hun, They say we lose relationships with this journey. We dont have to, but
it happens.
We are here for ya! Keep talking to those other peeeeps in the office that
support you. Dont mind her. ( i know you will) but you will get through this
and it will make you a stronger person.
I have the faith for you. Add me as a friend... I am here for you!
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