My mother is giving me a complex ...
My mother saw me for the first time in 6 days and freaked a little and asked if I lost more weight,,then she looked me up and down, told me I look scrawny and then said I look like I need to work out...
Gee, thanks Mom..How am I even supposed to take that?
I had my ovarian cyst surgery with a C-section cut so I havent been able to lift weights since then..I know I need to start..
Sigh as usual lately..
Sassy
Gee, thanks Mom..How am I even supposed to take that?
I had my ovarian cyst surgery with a C-section cut so I havent been able to lift weights since then..I know I need to start..
Sigh as usual lately..
Sassy
HW: 258lbs SW: 240 CW: 140 I am 5 foot 7 and 30 years old
VSG 12/21/10 Plastics: Tummy tuck, breast lift, and augmentation 11/3/11
Soon to be veterinarian!! xoxo
SASSI11
on 6/2/11 10:54 am
on 6/2/11 10:54 am
I haven't had my surgery yet (June 16th) and I am already getting comments from my mom. She has already told me she doesn't want me to change and "get a big head" WHATEVER MOM. This is for me...NOT YOU.
You are doing great and look wonderful! Don't let anyone bring you down.
Stephanie
You are doing great and look wonderful! Don't let anyone bring you down.
Stephanie
Sigh is right.
Do your best to tune it out. I don't see my parents often, but most recently my mom asked what size I was wearing and when I told her...she said that I couldn't lose too much more because then we would be the same size. My reply: well, my plan is to be even smaller. (Note: my mom has major BDD. she is much smaller than she thinks she is.) and this is the woman who my entire life told me that I would look so much better if I would just lose x lbs...I've learned that these issues and comments aren't about me, it's about her and her drama and I need to let it go. I'm doing the weight loss FOR me, not her, or anyone else.
Moms...ugh. We love them, but sometimes we wonder why. :)
Do your best to tune it out. I don't see my parents often, but most recently my mom asked what size I was wearing and when I told her...she said that I couldn't lose too much more because then we would be the same size. My reply: well, my plan is to be even smaller. (Note: my mom has major BDD. she is much smaller than she thinks she is.) and this is the woman who my entire life told me that I would look so much better if I would just lose x lbs...I've learned that these issues and comments aren't about me, it's about her and her drama and I need to let it go. I'm doing the weight loss FOR me, not her, or anyone else.
Moms...ugh. We love them, but sometimes we wonder why. :)
HW: 280; SW: 255; GW1: 150; CW: 155.
On June 2, 2011 at 5:55 PM Pacific Time, michellemj wrote:
Sigh is right.Do your best to tune it out. I don't see my parents often, but most recently my mom asked what size I was wearing and when I told her...she said that I couldn't lose too much more because then we would be the same size. My reply: well, my plan is to be even smaller. (Note: my mom has major BDD. she is much smaller than she thinks she is.) and this is the woman who my entire life told me that I would look so much better if I would just lose x lbs...I've learned that these issues and comments aren't about me, it's about her and her drama and I need to let it go. I'm doing the weight loss FOR me, not her, or anyone else.
Moms...ugh. We love them, but sometimes we wonder why. :)
~Kristy~ VSG 3/29/11 ~ 15 pounds lost pre-op, SW - 240/GW - 150
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