Obesity linked to bad SEX!?

 
For Men........

I thought the only safe way to make your unit bigger was with a magnifying glass......

Well theirs another way.....

Lose weight !!!!

Your unit stays the same.... but your body goes back !!!!!!

And as Sassy has figured out..... I'm ethnically challenged in that department and every little bit helps!!!!! I do have to say that I'm very proficient in other ways !!!!!

frisco

Ummm so how long after surgery did ya'll wait? LOL I'm single now...but kinda crawling the walls at 6 days!! LMAO 

6 days out?  You're ready to start knocking boots.  Just take it easy... if something hurts(in a bad way), just stop.

I don't have anyone to "knock" them with. LOL Just battery operated devices!! My drive is just weird!! Sometimes it's crazy and all I wanna do is DOOO it and other times I could careless!! LOL 

LMAO @ If something hurts (in a bad way)... 
I will be honest here.  I used to love having sex and at 41 I'm supossed to be in the prime of my life.  Due to Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue and all the meds, I became morbidly obese.  Sex seems like a chore now and to be honest, I just don't care about it anymore because my body is ginormous and I feel like "omg how in the hell can he want it..I'm so ugly now!"  So yeah, for me it's made a big difference and not in a good way. 

AMEN sistuh!!  Even with 70# gone my interest is null.  Hoping it will return sometime??  I keep thinking, OMG we look like 2 pigs in a gunny sack.  Nothing stimulating about that image!  :-)  Perhaps as he/we loses weight due to the fact I cook for 1 and split it between us, the mental image will change. 

..Im thankful im one of those that being overweight didnt effect..Me and my hubby are both very sexual always have been.Love it Love it..Its a wonder i dont have a boat load of children due to the fact that I have never been on birth control and we dont use any form except withdrawel.But anyway...Am I  insecure about my body?Yes, but ive been with my hubby 17 years and getting naked in front of him is no big deal as he says hes not worried about my body he just wants the coochie.lol.But things are getting even better..Im shrinkin,feeling better,able to do More things for longer and hubby has been more affectionate than before., but if I wasnt with my hubby .NO WAY in hell would i get naked or have sex with anyone else lol So its probably true...I would have to become a NUN until i lost the weight..But ofcoarse I would use Mr. Jiggles once in a while..

I've been with hubby over 20 years and I'm still like UGH! when I feel his hand roll over a fat mound.  Mr. Jiggly ran screaming in terror when he saw my body too, and I even had the lights off! 

At least when you bend over it doesn't look like you have two oranges in a pair of tube socks!  LOL

 Ok well my sex drive has always been decent.  I don't think it's been huge or anything.  Probably middle of the road but it went into overdrive when my hubby and I "hooked up" lol.  It got worse after our son was born, but again perfectly normal, and my weight went up even higher.  Now it's amazing it's getting better and better!  Almost back to normal.  Now I just have to figure out how to get rid of the kids once in a while lol.

And just a thought on the "research" maybe the obese women's sexual satisfaction is lower compared to the men because there are less people willing to have sex with an obese women than there are with an obese man.  It's probably not due to their confidence in the act at all, just the availability of the act.  Just sayin....